The Joe Rogan Experience - #2137 - Michelle Dowd
Episode Date: April 18, 2024Michelle Dowd is the author of "Forager: Field Notes on Surviving a Family Cult," revealing her life growing up on an isolated mountain within an apocalyptic cult, and how she found her way out by gle...aning strength from the wilderness. https://www.michelledowd.org/ https://twitter.com/Michelledowd2 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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The Joe Rogan Experience.
Thanks Joe for having me.
My pleasure.
I love your man cave.
Oh, thank you.
I really do.
Awesome.
Yeah, it's fun.
So when I heard your story, I was like this sounds completely insane
Hmm, and just to fill people in just explain what happened
Well, I was born into a cults a high-control group that I didn't know to call a cult because you know
I was born there child. That was my whole experience. My grandfather started in 1931, so my mother was also born into the Colts in the 1940s.
My dad was, let's just say he was 12 when he first met my grandfather, who would later
become his father-in-law, and my grandfather became his father figure.
So my mom was married off to this man who was a follower of her father
and I am the second child of their union.
Wow.
And, yeah.
Where did all this take place?
So this took place, that he originally started it near LA in Pasadena, which most people
know because of the Rose Parade and other things like that. When he first started it, it started,
my understanding is he was a Boy Scout leader.
And he was an orphan.
He had come from Oklahoma when he was a young man.
And the Boy Scouts didn't allow him to have as much control
as he wanted to have of the boys.
Oh boy.
So, yeah, which is a lot of control.
So he left the Boy Scouts and he took the boys with him.
And some of the boys from his original troop in 1931
stayed with him past his death.
One of the first boys took over after him
in the late 1980s.
Wow.
Or the early 1980s actually.
Yeah, so he was really good at getting followers.
What was his background?
Like what did he do before he did all this?
Nothing.
Nothing.
He was completely, I don't think he graduated from high school.
I don't know that for sure.
He lied about everything.
And he said he had a PhD from Stanford later when he got, yeah.
It wasn't until I got to college that I knew this.
I'm not even 100% sure he knew how to read, to be quite honest.
Really?
He came from a family where he was the only child that
lived out of his particular mother, who was married
to a man who was a second marriage.
And his first wife had died, and then he had a bunch of kids
or whatever.
So he had a bunch of half siblings, but no full siblings.
And apparently, now this could be lore too,
they kind of excommunicated him.
He compared himself to Joseph of the multicolored clothing and everything. So he was like put
down a well, he liked to say, and he escaped and he came to LA in the height of, I don't
know, the silent films, things like that. He said he was in silent films. There's no
chance that is true, but he said he was and he got some sort of probably
church education when he got here and he declared to everyone he was the prophet of God. He
was going to live 500 years and he was going to lead the army of God in the second coming.
Wow. That's your grandpa.
That's my grandpa. It certainly is.
Oh my God. Wow. Yeah. You can't pick your grandpa.
No, you can't. No.
But it was a male organization for a very long time. It was all men and it wasn't until
All men? All men. It was all men. It was from 1931 to
1966 when my mom married my father. No one was allowed to get married there. And they were
all presumably celibate and it was just men.
Oh my god. Presumably. It's like prison. They're gay for this day.
Absolutely. So I was raised by a bunch of older men who had never been with a woman.
Oh my god.
Can you see how well that ended? But he didn't want his daughter to be an old maid and
she was getting older she was 24 by the time you married her off to my dad and
at that point I think the women like his wife said you know it was his their
fourth child they had three boys first and so this was his first daughter and
he decided that since the world had not yet ended that maybe he should marry her
off before she either became an old maid or maybe a loose woman who knows.
When did he think the world was gonna end?
Well he used to prophesy in 1977.
Want some more fire?
Sure, I'd love some fire.
I'll keep this over here if you want. It's easy to use.
Thank you. Where I come from this is a grave sin by the way.
Oh, a woman smoking a cigar, or anyone?
Anyone smoking a cigar.
Anyone?
Are you allowed to drink coffee?
Yes.
What was the rules?
Well, coffee's interesting because I don't know
that they said out loud you could drink coffee,
but I don't remember it being forbidden.
That the body is the temple of God,
and that there's no marking your body with ink,
no piercing your ear, I know.
I have a lot of ink myself,
I wasn't sure if I should show it off.
No piercing in the ears.
Right, no piercing in the ears.
What about makeup?
No makeup when I was young.
They also, unusually, cut off women's hair,
at least during the era that I was there.
Now there was an-
Cut it off like a boy's hair?
Yes, mm-hmm.
My mom had the exact same haircut since she got married
until she died, the exact same haircut since she got married until she died.
The exact same haircut.
She died in 2022.
Yeah, so just a lot of the femininity
was considered a temptation to the boys.
And since it was supposed to be, they
thought it was better to burn in hell
than to lust after a woman.
And they quoted some stuff from Paul, you know,
and the apostles and the epistles.
And that basically you could get married as opposed to lust.
And so eventually in the 1960s,
they allowed their first wedding, which is 35 years.
Think about that, 35 years of all, yeah,
just a bunch of dudes.
Wow.
It is just absolutely fascinating to me how some people develop these groups and how they do it and like what the characteristics of the leaders are.
It's so weird.
There's a place out here called the One World Theater, and it used to be owned by a cult
that there's a documentary on called Holy Hell.
And this guy had started a cult in Los Angeles.
He was a yoga teacher, but he was also a gay porn star and a hypnotist.
That's a nice combo.
It's a great combo for a documentary.
The documentary is incredible. You watch the documentary, you're like, what the hell?
And he was running from the cult awareness network, so he changed his name.
His original name was Jaime Gomez.
He changed his name. I forget what it was.
He had like two different names. So I think one was Michelle, and there was another one.
So, and then he came out here to Austin
because right after Waco,
they were kind of cracking down on cults
and they were trying to find, yeah.
So they're like, we gotta go.
So the cult awareness network was on to him
because also family members were calling in,
hey, we lost our children, they're with this guy
and he's crazy and you know,
got the people in the woods in LA.
And so he moved out to Austin
and had his followers build him this
Theater where he could dance in front of them
Yeah, and so there's answer it was like he was a very handsome guy and he was very charismatic
And he was like ripped. He was a yoga instructor at a six-pack. He's beautiful man and
I think he and he also was a kind of exotic looking, so he had this like guru
thing going on, you know, and then he was also a hypnotist. So he's like really good
at manipulating people's consciousness. And...
That might be a criteria for being a cult leader, by the way.
Charismatic?
Maybe a form of hypnotist. Like you have to be able to manipulate consciousness.
Because if people, at least your top leaders,
have to be indoctrinated.
If they are not, I mean, some people call it brainwashing,
you can call it what you want,
but you have to have people who worship you.
It doesn't work unless you do.
Of course.
I think we have a very narrow idea of what hypnotism is
because of the term.
I think the term term you lock on the
term like oh I want to quit smoking I'll go to a hypnotist and they set you in
the clock tick-tock tick-tock but I think there's like states of mind
melding that happen with people where you all get sort of locked into a state
of consciousness and I think it happens in riots. I think you know I'm saying
like the madness of the crowds.
There's something real about that.
If you've ever been in a chaotic public environment where like fights break out or something like
that, there's a very strange feeling in the air that leads people to do things that they
would never do before.
People that would never pick up a shopping cart and throw it through a Starbucks window
will do that now.
It's like everybody just loses their fucking mind and
It I think it happens in concerts when people like jamming out together
You all get in the same like mind frequency and I think a really good cult leader does that too
I think they get these people and they lock them into this way of thinking and
We're you know, we don't want to call it hypnotism,
but I think there's a lot of states that are very similar to hypnotism in that something
happens where you enter into an altered state of consciousness. It's probably accessible
somehow or another, but you don't know how to get there. But then this song brings you
there or this person brings you there with their talk about the impending apocalypse and we're all locked in, you know, and it gives people like a sense of belonging
and purpose that you're locked into this frequency that everybody else in the room is locked
into.
It's very comforting.
I mean, there are a lot of things about a cult that are very comforting.
Yeah.
I think that's the positive benefit of religion.
Absolutely.
You know, it's like this thing comforts you.
Some of them's got to be wrong.
Some of them's got to be wrong.
Or if you have a hundred different ones and they're all different gods and different people,
somebody's got to be wrong.
But the one common denominator that they share is that if you do believe in these things,
it seems to aid you in life.
People seem to be happier,
they seem to have more of a sense of purpose,
they don't feel lost.
You know, some of the least happy people I know are atheists.
And I have a joke about it where I say,
you're really dumb for not believing in stupid shit.
Because if you believed in stupid shit,
if you believed in dumb shit, you'd be happier.
That would be a smarter move because it's kind of true
And I think that's what's so fascinating to me about these cults is how they do it how they lock people in
I'm sure because of your experience. You're probably seeing a few of these documentaries, right?
You've probably seen I definitely have and you know when I watched the reenactment of the Waco one
Which is not the documentary but but the, did you read,
watch the one that came out maybe five years ago?
No, no.
But they showed, you know, the children
and how they didn't want to leave, you know,
they, and just how difficult,
there was a child psychologist who worked with them
afterwards and I was very interested in that
because it takes a long time to undo the level of... I mean,
it's one thing to have a faith, right? Like believing in, you can call it stupid shit,
but whatever you believe in, it's one thing to have a faith, but to not have the ability
to think for yourself and that to be trained out of you. So I went to lunch a couple of
days ago with someone I hadn't seen since I was three. So a lot of fellow former field
members have come out of the
woodwork since this book came out.
We should tell her, right, field is the name of the group.
Oh yes. Yes, we call ourselves the fields. And one of these former members who I won't
name, I hadn't seen, I didn't recognize him at all. I just hadn't seen him since I was
a little kid. But several of them have come out who knew my parents and of course knew
my grandfather before I was born and then maybe knew me when I was a little teeny girl
and they have lots of stories.
Anyway, he was on one of these things we called the trip
with a capital T.
And what we did on the trip, I mean,
there were different things in different years,
but this one was in the early 1970s.
And he was, you know,
doing all the things you do on the trip.
But one thing they required was,
my father required of us at home too,
is to run every morning.
First thing in the morning,
which you can say there's some good things about this,
but you slept together in tents,
and then you'd get up and you'd run,
and you'd have to beat your time.
And my father used to time us as a kid.
So like I had to beat my time every day,
which is really hard to do of course,
because at some point you're not gonna be able
to beat your time, right?
Like you can't always get better.
But at this point, he was 19, and he was beating the time he said in that time was in relation
to the fastest runner.
And so if the fastest guy was going really fast, you had to keep the same ratio of distance.
So anyway, he didn't make his time.
There were three guys who didn't make their time and they had to go through the swap machine.
So my grandpa often made boys go through the swap machine and the simple version, which was done at the
actual location of the field, was you'd crawl through the other boys' or men's legs and
every boy would spank you. I know, I know.
Oh my God.
I know. They're a little, well, we won't even get into all the things you can think about
that. But there was a different version that was only done when the boys were separated
from their parents.
And so when they would go on these trips, and my dad was the original driver, he started
driving by the time he was 18.
He was driving all around the country taking my grandfather's boys.
So again, my father was not his son.
He was just some dude who like, you know, joined to this cult.
And my father would drive these boys around and he would time them when they ran and did
all those things.
And so in this particular case,
they did swap machine where you have to hold on
to a fence pole and you face the fence
and then all the guys come and they hit you.
So they're not just spanking you, but they're hitting you.
And so he was getting kidney punches and all this stuff
and he was saying he fell to his knees
and he was, he almost died.
He was so bruised up and he was,
he did not want anyone to know this story. He
hasn't spoken of it because he's so ashamed that potentially someone might think, why
didn't you fight back? And of course I said, but you were trained, not, you trained that
you deserved this, you know? And then apparently one of my uncles, you know, was really worried
want to take him to hospital, but couldn't or didn't
because they had no insurance.
And this young man who's no longer a young man
said that he could never tell his parents.
And he never, to this day, ever told his parents or anyone.
He and his brother have never spoken of their time
in the fields.
It is like this big taboo.
He got out maybe a year later, but he was,
I mean that was only one of many, many, many stories
he told me, but that one just really struck me
to feel ashamed of that.
You know, like I guess for many years,
I too did not tell people where I came from
because you feel like you must have done something weak
to be a follower, and that's just not true.
I mean, if someone gets a hold of you as a child
They can program you to think almost anything, especially if they're good at it. Yeah unquestionably
I mean, that's why they have child suicide bombers. Yes
Yeah, I mean you can trick children
it's a it's understandable though that you would think somehow or another that other people would think that it's your fault or
Ignorant people would think why didn't you know? Why didn't you leave?
You know or people that you know never really thought about it never thought it through because they haven't had to
Right, you know friends I went out with who I mean, I'm calling them friends now
But I hadn't seen them since I was a little girl
They were saying I would have of course you would drink the Kool-Aid and when people use that expression
I would have been first in line what sign up for that I for that. I mean, that's, we all would have,
and I mean that, and I was, I was born there and indoctrinated and I would have completely
taken anything that my grandfather or my parents told me was going to kill me. I would have,
you know, I would have felt that that was going to take me to heaven quicker and
everyone I knew would have done that. Wow. And the reason you don't hear about a lot of cults, by the way, is because they didn't
end up in flames or mass suicide.
But that doesn't mean that they didn't prey on, you know, dozens, sometimes hundreds or
even thousands of people, depending on the cult.
I was talking to Mark Andresa and he was explaining to me that there's still many, many active
cults in California.
Absolutely. And I was like, what? Like, Like right now, like people know about them? Oh
yeah, they're successful. Like there's some successful cults. Mm-hmm. Yeah, when I
first went to... Is the field still around? The field's still around. I've been told it is a
completely different organization and I'm not gonna vouch one way or the other.
They certainly don't have a charismatic leader like my grandfather once he died and his replacement was there and then once he died, I think it's become,
it has not become secular. It's a very strong religious organization, but they don't have
the control they used to. Because like when we were young, we didn't have social security
numbers. There was no way to track things. And now, you know, it's hard to get away with
it.
You have to pay taxes.
Yes, they do pay taxes. And there was a sexual abuse case that was actually prosecuted.
And I think after that, which I think was 2006, I think that they had to really clean up a lot of their practices.
When I'm hearing these stories about these boys and the abuse, that's what I'm thinking about.
If there's a bunch of boys and no one's allowed to get married,
that's not a good recipe.
No, it's not. And the particular one that got prosecuted was a young leader who was
abusing 11 and 12-year-old boys sexually. I say out loud, I said this to my mom, I said,
Mom, isn't it curious that no one's ever prosecuted anyone for what they did to girls? And I was
a sexual abuse victim there. And it was something I was so ashamed of for so long.
And anyway, but there's other forms of abuse that go on.
I mean, there's obviously physical abuse,
but there's a lot of psychological abuse.
There's a lot of ways that it gets inside of you
that you're worthless and that you can't trust yourself.
And you can't even trust yourself with your own stories.
And I have a slightly younger brother
who adores you, by the way.
Thomas said, what's up?
What's his name?
His name's Michael.
What's up, Michael?
Yeah.
I love him to death.
And he was raised, you know, we were all raised collectively,
but we were also raised separate from each other.
And my biological siblings, we all had different experiences
because they don't let you bond.
They don't want my sister, who's just a little bit younger
She and I we loved each other deeply, but we weren't allowed to speak to each other sometimes for weeks or months at a time
And they were just strongly against you forming what they would call allies
They didn't want friendships that could turn into anything that would be a little bit
mmm
Probably cold to you, but no like anything that would form
Hmm Probably cold tea, but no like anything that would form
A clique they used to call it right any other groups where the another person could be in control
Right or they could discuss who's in control. Yes, or any loyalty to anyone else other than the primary leader
There's a lot of ways that this that you can indoctrinate people and make them police themselves
Hmm. Oh, yeah, That's what North Korea does.
Yeah. Yeah.
North Korea gets everybody to rat on everybody else.
Oh, yeah. That was huge where I come from.
I have... I felt like it was a huge compliment.
One of the former members came out of the woodworks after this, and he said,
you know, I knew that you would never rat us out.
And I was like, man, that's so great.
But I mean, it was something we were all taught so, so, so deeply. That, yeah, you have to, no matter if this is your brother, or your sister, or your mom,
you have to tell on them.
You have to.
Because you're worse.
And that just keeps everybody scared all the time.
You never trust anyone.
God, that's so, it's so insidious and yet also brilliant.
Like, it's evil.
It's evil.
But it's, how did he figure out how to do it?
That's it's crazy. And how is he able to pull it off? That's what's always so fascinating to me that
It's not like children with children. It just makes 100% sense. You're raised there
You think this is reality and you think that the world outside reality is all a bunch of evil demons or whatever it is
But if you're an adult, like you're a grown adult, 34 year old man, and you meet this dude at the auto
repair shop, and he hands you a pamphlet, and the next thing you know, you're on a farm
somewhere, like how do those people?
So I can't vouch to that. I will say that the unusual thing about the field is you have
to join as a child. There are no adults who join. You, they, it's kind of like a pyramid scheme. When you're, most people join when they're
five or six and they are indoctrinated and then they play sports. Like, so for
example, they play tackle football at age five and so they teach everyone how to,
you know, play a game but it's only the people who are really good at the game
that they continue to court, I would say you could call them groom
whatever, but
It's there's a lot more kids there than will ever get into the inner circles
And it's a little like the mob or something like I was born in the inner circle
But there are plenty of people who came out of that cult who honestly weren't harmed by it because they got out young
So as long as you get out by the age of 12, you're probably okay.
But they don't keep you unless you're really fully indoctrinated.
And most of the people who stay really don't have a family to go back to. And they separate you from your family.
And so they do more and more separation as you become a teenager. By the time you're 18, you're signing a commitment for life form.
And I'm not saying that's happening now, but that was 100% happened not during my not just during my era
But all the decades prior to me, so it's not just a cult, but it's like it's got a sort of a meritocracy built into it
Yeah, but I think a lot of cults have that really I think so yeah
Yeah, I mean you have to keep people out that don't line up enough
Yeah, so cults in general kick people out in fact
They want you to believe
that staying is hard and that you have to work hard to stay. I think the misconception
is that they're trying to get you in. Sure, they're seducing you in some way. There's
some sort of calling card, whether it's a pamphlet or something else, but once you're
there... Yoga class.
Do I have what? No, I said yoga class.
Yeah, exactly. That's what that guy did.
Exactly. Yeah, dancing, you know. But whatever brings you in. But then after that, it's like you're the strong one.
You're the special one for choosing to stay. In this particular cult, they always would say there's 20 of you in this room,
19 of you will fall away. There's only one of you who, you know, will make it into the army of God.
Geez. It's like the Navy SEALs of cults. It kind of is. And there is a lot of physical...
seals of cults. It kind of is and there is a lot of physical... yeah. I'm feeling what the best of the best. So if you were a child and you're in... I mean
how... first of all, how could anybody ever expect a child who gets
indoctrinated into that to know the difference? If that's your reality
and that's what you grow up with,
how could you possibly know?
What year are we talking about when you were eight years old?
That would have been the late 70s.
So nobody knows what the hell's going on.
Oh, absolutely not.
Even in the world.
Exactly.
The whole thing's a big foggy haze.
There's no internet.
We have like 1 tenth of access to information that we do today.
Oh, less probably.
And you're also a child, and you think that this is reality.
And parents were used to their kids being gone all the time, and I think that that was
not something unusual.
Because one thing I hear for kids who went there, people say, well, how did your parents
allow that?
And I mean, parents, like, they sent them off to the sports place, and then their kid
got really into it, and then at some point, their kid became a teenager and didn't want to come home anymore.
And I mean, they're like, well, I don't think my kid's doing drugs, or I don't think that
they're, like, in prison.
So it seems like they're doing pretty well.
But it also seems like, societally, there was a shift at some point in time where...
What was the year where more women entered the workforce and more women started getting jobs.
So that happened in the 70s. I think 1973 might have been like one of those, I mean
obviously it was starting to happen in the 60s, but there was a lot of women at
home in the 60s. Around 1973 to 1979 you had a huge exodus of women out of the
home. The women I come from, I mean, like my grandmother who had my father who joined to the cult,
she was always a working woman, minimum wage working woman.
She didn't have more than eighth grade education.
She worked because her father, excuse me, my dad's father, her husband, had been in
World War II and got pretty severe PTSD or whatever, was an alcoholic and beat her.
And so she ran away from him.
She just had one child, which was my father.
She was living in Chicken Coop in LA, just with this one son, and she was the first woman
to get hired in a factory.
But this was in the 1940s.
So there were always women, of course, and lots of women of color who were working, but
it wasn't the middle class women who were working.
But the poor women were always working.
Right.
I'm just thinking like latchkey kids at that point back then.
Seventies and even eighties.
Yeah, it was totally common. All my friends, we just got let out of the house when we were kids.
You just got on the bus, went to school, walked home from school,
rode the bus, hung out with your friends. Nobody knew where you were.
Right. So you could have been in a cult and your parents would have not necessarily known.
I think I would have told them.
But I could have got sucked into one.
That's the point.
It's like everybody looks at themselves as who they are today.
So if you're a 35 year old man and you're listening to this today, you're like, I wouldn't
get sucked into that.
You can't say that because you're not a five year old boy.
If you're a five year old boy, you don't know what the fuck is going on. You're a child. By the time you're 18, you sort of get a, especially if you're
a little streetwise, like, all right, some people are shady. I know what the fuck's going on. Listen
to this guy. He's trying to rope me in. I remember there was this Christian group when I was in
college that was trying to indoctrinate people. they were they were like young good-looking
people and there was this this beautiful Puerto Rican girl and she was always
trying to get me to go to parties with her and I was like wow did I hit that
jackpot like eventually I'm gonna get a date with this girl. Like this is amazing. You know, I was probably 1920, I guess, 2021 maybe.
And one day she invites me to go to this retreat
on the weekend.
Like they have some crazy Christian retreat.
And I'm like, oh my God, a retreat.
Like she's not telling me it's a Christian retreat.
She's just telling me it's like this fun party
and this whole thing.
And I said, I can't, I have plans this weekend. I go, but if you guys ever do another one of those things, that sounds like fun. So Monday morning, or whatever the day was, I'm in school, and we're
all in the cafeteria. And it was the day that Trump's airplane, the landing gear failed to open.
the landing gear failed to open. And so we all sit down at the lunch table,
and I had just seen it on the news.
I said, did you see this thing on the news
about the plane?
It's crazy, like the landing gear didn't go out,
and so the plane just on the belly of the plane
skid across the runway, and there's all these crazy sparks.
And I go, but nobody died, and they go,
oh, praise God,
praise God. And I was like, what? Like, what's going on here? This super hot Puerto Rican girl's like,
oh, praise God. They're all praise God, praise God. And I'm like, oh, and then it just immediately
clicked. You dummy. They were trying to get you to go to their church thing. You thought she liked
you. And then they started talking to me more about God.
And then I was like, oh, I got to go.
I got to go to class.
I got to get out of here.
I'm like, fuck.
So you didn't get that date?
No, no, I avoided them.
They were in my Italian class, and they were learning how to speak Italian.
And I avoided them.
I was like, I can't.
I can't be involved in this.
Because they were all glossy.
They were all like, they were all glossy.
They were all believers.
This is not saying that God's not real.
This is not saying that Christianity is not true.
That's not what I'm saying.
What I'm saying is you could have got those people with Scientology.
You could have got those people with Mormonism.
You could have got those people with the Moonies.
Whatever.
They were just looking for a thing that they could attach themselves to and then formulate their identity
based around this thing and for them it was
Christianity and it was this like youthful form of Christianity where they're trying to get young people
They're making it like retreats. We're gonna have we're gonna party and they were all socially odd. They were all real awkward people
It was really it was very interesting though to me.
The person is always curious about human beings.
I was like, this is wild.
I'm hanging around.
Well, I think in high control groups, they do tend to obviously cater to the young.
I mean, they're soliciting the young.
And I want to be clear too, I'm not anti-religion.
I think high control groups slash cults are a whole different experience.
And yes, they use religion, but they don't teach you to have faith and to trust yourself in your faith.
They teach you to follow someone else's faith.
I used to have a joke about what's the difference between a cult and a religion. Where a cult
is created by one guy and he knows it's bullshit. In a religion, that guy's dead. And all the
other people, all the other people that this fucking dude 2000 years ago convinced.
But some religions are really beneficial and they might in fact be based on some kind of
true story.
I think it's a game of telephone.
That's what I think.
I think if you tell me a story and I tell Jamie the story and then Jamie tells someone
out in the lobby a story, by the time it gets to me all the way again, it's going to be screwed up, right?
Now imagine this over thousands of years of just oral tradition and then writing in lost
languages like ancient Hebrew, they wrote them in Aramaic on animal skins, some of these
stories like the Dead Sea Scrolls. and Then they eventually translate them to Latin and to Greek and to Roman at the English and the German like
What?
lost in translation also
Like what did they know? How much did they know?
They had some ideas of like the formation of the universe the beginning there was light sound a lot like the Big Bang
Sounds a lot like if you would tell the Big Bang to your kids and your tits would tell to their kids
And you're gonna do this for a thousand years at the end of it. You're gonna get some real
People are gross. They always like to like twist things around and make things
You know, they add their own little spice to a story like you ever a friend and tells a story
Hey, bro, that didn't happen that way
Like you didn't say that you fucking ran for cover like everybody's
got their own version of a story well if you've got oral traditions 100% for sure
you're gonna have a lot of that especially when you have high control
groups like your grandfather your grandfather the translations to like we
even when the monks were translating all that and like they were scribes, they were inscribing it.
Yeah.
Like all of that too, there was an agenda on a lot of that.
A hundred percent.
Yeah.
And then when we read the King James version of the Bible, I mean, you know, the king pronounced
it to be so.
And so anything that was left out, I mean, there was a lot left out, right?
And what was canonized, because it was
perhaps dangerous to the particular regime that he was running. And so, not to say that
there's not truth.
Yeah, imagine you get to decide.
Yes, I know. You get to decide.
You get to decide what God meant.
Yeah.
I think God didn't mean any of that. Take that stuff out. My problem is never with religion.
My problem is purely with human nature and what we know about humans.
If there was a way that you got religion through some sort of non-human source,
like if you achieved your experience through a non-human source, I would go, okay, well maybe
there's a place that you can go and you could actually go meet God. There's like a portal you
walk through and you meet God. But as soon as you're doing you're letting people tell you a story
People are full of shit
They just generally
Generally at least a certain percentage are full of shit and the people that want to control people
Have a much higher likelihood of being full of shit because they really do that correctly
Like if you want to be a
President like you gotta lie. You gotta lie
It's like really important
so the the people that are like good at that job are generally full of shit and
So then you have a problem with the interpretation of the past, right?
I mean you're seeing that right now in universities like people are trying to reinterpret certain events because of the way people feel about
socio-political issues today.
So they're trying to reinterpret history, take down statues.
There's a lot of, like, craziness that's going on today.
Well, that's like a microcosm of the ancient history of human beings.
It's not that God's not real.
It's that people are full of shit.
And so there's some, a lot of wisdom in a lot of these ancient religious texts in particular,
which is really fascinating.
Like how much did they know about the human experience?
How much did they know about how you need to live your life in order to be harmonious
with the universe?
How do you, how do you like, how do you accentuate positive experiences?
How you leave the world a little bit better
than it was before you got here? And that's universal.
Have you read the whole Bible, by the way?
I did when I was a kid. I actually had Bible class in Florida. When I moved from San Francisco
to Florida, I was 11 years old, and it was a complete polar opposite experience of the country. I lived in San Francisco
with two parents who were hippies in Haight-Ashbury. So we were in the middle of like, we lived near
Lombard Street. We were in the middle of like the hippie anti-war revolution of the 1960s.
And then I moved to Gainesville, Florida. My stepdad was
going to, he was becoming an architect, he was a computer programmer and then he
switched careers, became an architect. And so he's going to University of
Florida at Gainesville. And so we were there, so now I'm around alligators,
there's fucking alligators everywhere. It was like, what are you people retarded? Why do you have giant
monsters everywhere? This is so ridiculous. So we had alligators, super weird swampy weather,
and religion. Religion was in the schools. Like in public school, you had Bible class,
and they also paddled you. It was the first time I'd ever been hit by a teacher.
I got in this fist fight with this kid and they whacked us with a paddle.
Can I ask you an allegorical question?
So when you were in Florida in the 1970s, were you there in the late 1970s?
It was, let me see, so I was in 67, I was born, so I in 73, I was in San Francisco,
so 75, 76.
Okay, did you know know someone whose name was
Ross Allen in Florida I was 11 well he was older like he would have he he was
an alligator yeah he's an alligator wrestler he had all I got oh god
alligator wrestlers what's the lifespan of those fellas I don't know when I don't know when he died, but yeah.
That doesn't seem like that would work out so well.
Well, they probably be fanged up, I don't know.
Even that, they're just going to break your arms off.
Speaking of which, I need more fire.
Oh, sorry. Grab that sucker right there and pull the top back.
Flip it around the other side. Like this? This way?
This way? This way? The other way?
No, the other way. It's upside down. see this there you go now see the top uh-huh pull
it sucker back like that like there yeah pull it down no it's not open you got
to open the top flip that top no no no look see this my hand oh my god I know
you got it thank you I feel like I came here to learn this. Perfect. Thank you
Yeah, it's a little weird because it's all black and so it kind of blends in especially if you're like us and your eyes are
probably going
as time goes on
Like I can do it myself. There's not a chance in hell. I could ever do one of those clasps on a
Like a bracelet those little tiny bracelets like them little clasps like my wife tried to get me to do one of those
I'm like, I don't even know what I'm saying. I have no idea what that is. I see blur. I see golden blur
What the fuck that is?
What we just talked about you were talking about learning the Bible in school
But so one of the things that a lot of people who have read the Bible
Or they have read a portion of the Bible. I definitely don't think I read the whole thing. Well, yeah, that's the thing
it's not very many people do and that's why I asked because a lot of it is is
Kind of tedious history and there's a lot of he begats and there's the whole line
and you know of Christ all the ancestors and the whole delineation of all that and
Where I come from we were encouraged encouraged to read a verse of the Bible, but they would always
tell you what it meant.
And so I kind of went against, I used this little pin light and did it late at night,
but I read the whole thing cover to cover when I was eight.
And if you read every single book in order, you start to find that there's a lot of really
beautiful, beautiful, beautiful places in the Bible, but there's a lot of stuff that's really violent. And then there's
a lot of stuff that contradicts itself. And it's because it was written in different time
periods by different authors in different languages, and it also has a historical context.
And so generally, there's a lot of stuff that people leave out when they teach the Bible,
because it's really hard to explain.
Like what stuff?
Well, there's, for example,
I mean, this one's taught a little bit,
but David, King David, I'm sure you've heard of him,
like as of David and Goliath,
but then he became a powerful king.
And he saw this woman who,
this woman is often talked about Bathsheba,
he sees her bathing on a roof.
And where we came from, we were taught,
like she shouldn't have been bathing on the roof.
Now, I don't,
I,
right? Anyway, he demands
that she come to him and she is the wife of a soldier of his named Uriah, a top soldier.
And he commands her to lie with him and she becomes pregnant. And then King David, who
is the same guy who had the slingshot of David and Uriah, decides that he's got to figure
out how to get her husband back so that her husband can go sleep with her, and her husband won't do it because he's
loyal to the army. And he comes back, but he sleeps like at the floor of the castle, you know, trying to...
Pete Wait a minute. He's trying to get the husband to go back with the wife?
Amanda So that she, the pregnancy will seem like it's his.
Pete Oh boy.
Amanda Yeah. So he –
Pete In the Bible.
Amanda In the Bible.
Pete Dirty David.
Amanda Yeah, exactly. And it doesn't even in there. So Uriah won't do it cuz Uriah is loyal to David
Oh boy, and so then David sends him to the front lines to have him be killed
Oh boy, so that he can marry his wife and get away with that child's not being
bastard illegitimate
Oh boy, and then God kills the child because you know needs to make the point that David was and think about poor
Bathsheba. I mean she's just been like wrung around her husband gets killed all these things her kid dies because God is punishing David.
And her husband got killed because he was loyal to the guy who got her pregnant. Absolutely. That's not a story a lot of people hear.
Oh my God. But you can fact check that one if you'd like. Oh no I believe you.
I'm good at that. I'm good at just, okay, now go argue it. I mean, there's something
I talk a little bit about in the book Forager, which I encourage everyone to read. But in
that book I talk about has a kid that I looked up this whole long, you know, he begat, he
begat, and there's only four times that it mentions a woman who a child came out of.
Like it's all the male line. But occasionally they'll say, so-and-so, you know, Boaz threw Ruth, or David's the father
threw Bathsheba. So Bathsheba ended up having a child who became Solomon, who we know, a
lot of people know at least, of being the wisest man who ever lived, and he wrote Ecclesiastes.
And so there's four women who are named. And as a child, that was really interesting
to me. And I would ask, you know, why are these four women in the line of Christ? And
no one would tell me. And so I started doing the research about that. And one was a prostitute,
one... Oh, here's a story you don't hear a lot. Wanna hear another Bible story?
Sure.
There was a woman named Tamar, and she had been married to one of three sons. I think
there was three. And her husband died before giving
her a child. So as was the custom in the time and perhaps the law, she married the brother
of her dead husband and that man would not give her a child because he didn't want to
have a child in his brother's name. And so they're allowed to have more than one wife,
but this woman was not allowed to have a child.
So he does something they call onanism.
So he like spilled his seed on the ground
instead of inside of hers that she couldn't have a baby.
And so God gets really mad
because Onan will not impregnate her.
And so Onan gets killed too.
And so then her father-in-law decides not to marry her off
to the youngest brother
because two of the brothers are already dead, right?
And he doesn't want to lose his only son. So he just vanishes her and she has nothing
because what does a woman have at the time? She doesn't have a husband or a child. She
has no ability to make a living in the world. And so this man is the father-in-law is really
unkind to her in a way that she decides she needs to take something into her own hands.
And so she dresses up like a prostitute and goes to the side of the road. And as he's
traveling on the road, she puts herself in front of him and offers her services. And
he sleeps with her and he does not have payment on him for some reason. And so he gives her
his staff, which is a token of his word or something. So at least he's paying his prostitute.
And she gets pregnant
from this and he orders her when he finds out she's pregnant to be stoned to death,
you know, to be killed and executed because, you know, she's not allowed to have a baby
outside of wedlock. And she said, Okay, but let me just return the staff to you that I
got from the father of the baby. And so then he ends up protecting her and she gets to
have the child and that child is in the line of Christ
Whoa, so really interesting things. I don't know what you're supposed to learn from that story
When I was a kid reading this I would ask and of course no one really wanted to tell me
Because she was rewarded for that. That's the interesting thing. It's good. Those stories are crazy
It's it's just if you're being honest and if you believe in God, but you
also know that people are full of shit, you have to put all this stuff through a filter.
You just have to. And it doesn't mean that there's no God.
Kirsten Khire, Ph.D. Of course.
Alan Taylor It doesn't mean that. It just means there's
probably something in these stories. But we have to be real careful with what that something is.
And I don't profess to know. I don't know why.
They condone slavery. The Bible condones slavery. Like flat out. It's in there all the time.
Yes.
Women are essentially second-class citizens. And you know what I found out recently? That
there was a woman before Eve.
Depending on who you ask.
Yeah. So what was that one?
KB Well, that's not in the 66 books of the Bible that most people are taught in the Protestant
tradition or the 69 or whatever in the Catholic tradition. That's part of the Apocrypha. So
these are books of the Bible that didn't make it into, you know, Christianity as such that
we...
KB The editor's cut.
KB Yeah, it was an editor's cut, exactly.
So that's not considered the Word of God, what you're reading that is considered or
what you heard.
It's like word on the street.
Word on the street.
Yeah.
I heard it on the internet, but yeah.
Okay.
That's the street these days.
Yeah, it is.
It's the best street.
Yeah, which is not to say it's not true.
I don't know the truth.
So I'm a yoga teacher, among other things, and one thing that I say all the time when I'm teaching,
which is a really common thing as a yoga teacher to say,
is whatever I am giving you right now is a suggestion.
So listen to your body, do what's great for you.
If this doesn't feel right to you, please don't do it.
And then you offer modifications, et cetera.
And what high control religion does,
and I'm not saying all religion,
I'm saying the culture of religion doesn't give you the option of listening to your body or opting out of anything.
This is the interpretation of the Word of God.
And the one thing I will say is I don't know why Tamar did what she did or why Onan did
what he did.
You know, I don't know whether or not the stories were transcribed accurately or not,
even if they were.
Like, I, that is a different culture, right?
And was I not, I wasn't there?
We don't even know if O.J. did it.
Right, so how are you gonna know
what happened to David and Bathsheba?
I mean, we're pretty sure he did it.
Well.
But I was just reading some story
that O.J. hired thugs to, there was another thing,
there was some thing that he said
that he hired thugs to kill his wife and Ron Goldman.
So this is really recent, is my point, and there's a bunch of versions of it and depends on who gets into power
Whatever version gets propagated right like if you if there was no internet and no independent journalism and
They never had to account for the fact that Iraq never really had weapons of mass destruction
If the people in charge if we're living in 1963, how long does it take before people figure out that Iraq
didn't have those weapons? How long? Do we ever find out? I don't know. I was gonna
say you might not ever find out. You might not ever find out. It took forever
just to figure out that the Gulf of Tonkin was a false flag that got us into
Vietnam. I mean it took decades for that to come out. And now that's widely accepted.
So our own history is sketchy as fuck. Our own history, our real absolute history is
sketchy as fuck. And that's why conspiracy theories are so fun.
Oh, yeah, of course. And, and in a sense, occult is just a whole conspiracy theory. I
mean, but they control the narrative. Completely control the narrative.
And no one's allowed to question it.
And if they do, they're excommunicated.
And one of the ways you know something as occult is they will always tell you that anyone
who left, it's different than outsiders.
I mean, outsiders are people who maybe never had access to the truth.
But people who are quitters, they literally call them quitters where I come from.
The quitters.
It's a good name.
I know it really is. Nobody likes quitters they literally call them quitters where I come from. It's a good name. Nobody likes quitters. Right, right. And so quitters were just anything they said was of the devil.
And so you were not allowed to talk to anyone who left and that's really common in cults. You couldn't even talk to them.
Yeah, that's that's a Scientology thing too, I believe, right? Yeah, I think it's really common in any high control group, I'm sure.
Yeah, because you can't you really do need to control the narrative and
you can't let other stories get in there. Yeah, wow. God damn. It's so interesting how these
patterns reoccur all over the world. You know, there's a guy in Australia that says he's Jesus
and he runs this whole cult in Australia and he has this woman who he says is Mary. But the
problem is there was another woman who was married before and it didn't work out with the original
Mary. So he tells this new lady, I was wrong about that other lady, you're Mary. And so...
Danielle Pletka Do you know that they say that the translation for Mary actually was woman?
Pete Slauson Oh, wow.
Danielle Pletka And so, the word possibly just means, I mean, you think about it, There's so many Marys in the Bible. Right. Like when people talk about Mary Magdalene
or Mary and Jesus or, you know, that it perhaps is just the translation for woman. Jesus as a
historical figure is controversial. There's people that say that there's absolute evidence for Jesus,
but then there's people that say, do you know like how much historical record we have on people that lived thousands of years before Jesus? You know, there's people
that lived, they know what they said, they know where they ate, they know where they went, they
know so much about them. But the Jesus one is kind of, there's people that say yes, there's historical
documents that show he existed, And then there's a bunch
of documentaries that you can watch. And like, boy, the evidence is kind of sketchy. It seems
to be a thought, like a reoccurring thing in many religions. It seems to be like Hercules,
right? It seems to be there's a bunch of these that are like real similar to that, like the
child of a god, you know Now that comes down to fix everything. There's a lot of traditions where you have a virgin birth
Mmm, yeah, and I am certainly not here to tell anybody what is true or not true
But the Gospels that are written about Jesus were written after right not during and that was you know common
I mean Socrates never wrote anything down. He brought stories to Plato and how long after his death
Well, I think the first one now now I feel like I am not a historian here, but I think the first
one was like a hundred years. And so you have apostle Paul who wrote, but he only saw Jesus
after, like he was on the road to Damascus. And so he saw Jesus after Jesus had been crucified
and risen. So what he saw was a ghost of Jesus
But the other you know, Gospels were not written by anyone who had seen Jesus in that way
even though they were the versions like
When you have Matthew Mark Luke and John, these are the versions that they were told so I don't know maybe a hundred years
Yes, so this is where belief
Hits for people that are listening to this right now, because
there's going to be a certain percentage of people right now that have their hackles up,
because someone might be insinuating that maybe all this Jesus stuff is not legit.
And that's not what anybody's saying.
What we're saying is these stories were written down 100 years after he was alive. And people are full of
shit. That's it. It doesn't mean that he didn't exist. Because if someone did exist, like
if the early emergence of humans in the world, let's imagine what they mean by this story if the early emergence of humans in this world
We're put down here to figure it out on their own like a bunch of the lock key kids like latchkey kids from the 1970s
Figure it out on your own. I'm gonna give you ways to live your life. Tell everybody but I'm hands-off
I'm hands-off. I'm an afterlife type of guy. I want you, I'm not
going to come down and explain it again, pop out of the clouds and freak everybody out. I did that
once. I did it once. I'm done. You guys killed me. So, I'm just saying, live your life this way.
If that was a real thing, what would be any different than the Bible? What would be any different about
the… if a real event like that actually happened where the Son of God came down and
explained to mankind what they're doing wrong and lived this amazing life and taught
so many people and they spread His wisdom and they spread His information, it wouldn't
be any different than the Bible
because you're still, even if it was like very clear
what he was saying and very clear what he had done
and the impact and how they all knew he was the son of God.
By the time 100 years go by, people talking about it,
who the fuck knows, who knows?
Yeah, but you know what Jesus did really well?
So Jesus didn't write anything down, right?
Like he was a storyteller.
Jesus told a lot of parables, and those are easier to remember.
So if you listen to like his Sermon on the Mount or, you know, these various things,
it's possible that some of these stories, which they can be interpreted more than one
way, but like, you know, to say that, have you heard the expression, casting pearls to
swine? Yes. What does that mean?
Jennifer Well, in the story of the prodigal son, there was this... And Jesus tells this story,
right? So, there's these two brothers, and one brother stays and does everything that his father
wants him to do. And the other brother says, give me, you know, the son, he says, the younger son,
says, give me my inheritance now. I don't want to wait till you're dead. Just give me my inheritance
now. I want to go experience life. And the father gives his younger son, he says, give me my inheritance now. I don't want to wait till you're dead. Just give me my inheritance now. I want to go experience life.
And the father gives his younger son his inheritance.
And this young man who is raised well goes out and hires prostitutes, does all the things,
right, and just lives this loose life.
And he finds that he runs out of money.
And he is in a pen of pigs.
And he is willing to eat what even the pigs won't eat, like the
leftovers, and he is face down in the mud, according to the story, in the pig pen and
says, even if I was a servant from my father, I'd be treated better than this.
And so he goes back, et cetera.
And his older brother is really upset because the father brings the son back and treats
him, you know, he's just
so grateful his son's returning to him.
And his brother says, you know, or an expression like, you're casting pearls to swine.
I mean, like, my brother is a pig.
My brother is like, you know, from the pig pen, and you're giving him something that
he doesn't deserve.
And that whole story, I mean, you can interpret it any way you want, but this idea that you
tell stories like this and someone could say God God is willing to take you back. And perhaps even better,
if you have experienced life and that just being obedient isn't the only way to live a life.
Maybe that's the, I don't know what the real interpretation is, right? But like, when you
read a story like that, or you hear the story, Jesus didn't write it down but if you told that story, then now people come to that and they think, what does
that mean?
Does that mean when I find myself in a pig pen that I can repent and go back?
What does it mean?
Isn't it funny that Jesus is a storyteller?
Yeah, I love that.
Because a storyteller is a person who stands in front of people and commands attention.
And we know how that goes.
Right? Yeah.
Well you're a storyteller. Well sort of. You don't think you're a storyteller? I talk shit on
stage so it's just jokes. But those are stories? Some of them are stories. Yeah.
Some of them are just making fun of things. Yeah. It's different than someone who like
tells you stories and imparts wisdom. Like
if someone's standing in front of a group of people imparting wisdom, that's a very
bizarre relationship. It's a very slippery position for the person that has the podium.
Very slippery. Because you could start believing all this nonsense. You could start believing
that you're different than everybody else. You could start believing that you are the Son of God. Even if you're not, I'm not even talking
about Jesus. I'm talking about someone today. Someone today, even today in this day and age
with the internet. If you started doing something like that and you're schizophrenic, you could
believe it. Lots of people, lots of people believe they're the Son of God right now. Yeah, 100% legit.
And then lots of people believe that other people are demons.
There's a lot of like real funky beliefs that people hold on to. And if someone, like I said, if someone was a charismatic leader and they pretended to be the son of God versus someone
who is actually the son of God, 100 years later, it's gonna be very difficult to parse out what's
what. Right. Which is a problem, which is a a real problem if you want to like put all your eggs in one
basket you got to pick a religion like boy if you're agnostic like which one of
you guys is right the Hindus right maybe the Buddha's right I don't know you know
some people would say that the Buddha and Jesus have an awful lot in common and
if there is a right that a lot of those beliefs are going to overlap and it is right to live a good life is to treat other people the way
that you would want to be treated.
And to love your neighbor.
Yeah, try to be nice, love your neighbor.
Yeah, I think there's universal truth in all that stuff.
I think the source of it is fascinating, Like what are the universal truths? But we always, we have to look
at things through a filter of reality. And the filter of reality, we know human beings are full
of shit. So you have to put that in there. You have to put that with everything. You can't just
say they wouldn't lie about religion. Stop. That's nonsense. It doesn't mean that God's not real.
It doesn't mean that Jesus didn't exist. Because, look, maybe Jesus is the ultimate...
It's like, this is the last word, and then we're going to let you guys figure it out
on your own.
And maybe if God exists, okay?
Let's just say as a thought experiment.
If God exists, why would God engineer an animal to be at the top of the food chain that is so filled with greed and wants so much power that it's willing to take over enormous swaths of land with giant machines and murder anybody who gets in their way, and it's all justified in the name of nationalism?
Why would God universally impart that kind of sensibility on a species?
Why would God tolerate it? Why would God tolerate crime and murder and all the horrible things
that we see today? Why would God want any of this stuff to go on? If God is so all-powerful
that He created the universe, is this just a first draft? If you like try like say like...
The idea is free will, right? I mean that's the answer to it is that in the garden when Adam and Eve
didn't know the difference and then they partake of the tree of the knowledge of
good and evil that like by the choice to do that brought sin into the world and
once there's sin into the world then humans always have the choice to follow
the light or follow the darkness.
I mean, that's the party line, right? Like, that it is human choice.
Right. My point was that maybe God's ultimate plan is to make things as fucked up as possible
so that it forces people to figure it out. It forces an evolution of consciousness.
It forces us to go to the light. It forces us, because it's the only way we survive.
Like that could, it could be like a test.
Like the entire human species, the entire civilization,
the whole thing, it's just some gigantic test
to see if you get it right.
Did you ever read A Wrinkle in Time when you were a kid?
Whose book is that?
Madeline Alinkle.
I've heard of it, I don't think I read it.
Okay, well it was, I don't know if it was taught in schools,
but kids read it for a year,
I don't know when it came out in the 70s probably.
But she says in an interview later
that she thinks that in the end,
that God is waiting for every single person
to choose to believe and to choose to follow.
And that the light, so in A Wrinkle in Time is a story,
or science in it and a lot of things,
but that when you see the light
and you're drawn to the light,
that you might be tempted by the darkness,
but when you really know what light is,
that you'll always choose that.
And so at the end of the day,
that we're all gonna see the light.
But even if you don't believe in religion,
if you know good experiences and bad experiences in your life
And when you're happy with yourself and when you're upset with yourself in your life
You generally know like there's a direction that you really want to be moving in and the more life experience you have the more stupid
Things you do the more you learn and so the more you get a better database to draw from to understand what each an individual
choice means in the greater picture of your existence. And as
you go further and further, you go, if you're living a harmonious life, you go almost naturally
towards that direction, trying to be nicer to people, love your neighbor, have more peace
in the world, don't be murdering people.
And that's generally how most religions want you to believe.
The origin of it is God, there's some sort of a guidebook for being a human.
That's the origin of it, it seems like.
They were just trying to like, you can't just let people be feral.
You got to give them some guidelines.
And one of the best ways is to, someone's watching all the time.
There's a dude in the sky.
But maybe he really is.
Maybe there really is something that watches everything.
It might not be watching, but it might be like integrated
into the entire existence of the whole thing.
Maybe that's what the prodigal son is about.
Yeah, maybe.
You know, he goes and has all these experiences,
find himself making every mistake possible,
and then sees the light and goes back to his father.
Yeah.
And goes back to the kingdom of righteousness.
Yeah.
There's wisdom in all these things.
And these people that lived and were writing things down
on animal skins while they were engaging in wars with spears,
you're like, this is fucking wild-ass times.
And they were trying to sort it all out.
Have you read Meditations, Marcus Aurelius?
Yes. Isn't that wild stuff?
Yeah.
That's it's wild how brilliant this guy was 2000 years ago.
Like his understanding of how to live a life.
It's so valuable.
And his concept of forgiveness, like forgiveness.
He's a fucking Roman.
I mean, this dude is like this badass
soldier. And he's like, it's very important to forgive everybody, even forgive your enemies.
Like he had this incredible wisdom about logistically maintaining your objective perspective
of the world. world was really interesting.
So we know people were smart as shit back then.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And if you go back 2,000 years before him, when people started writing all this stuff
down.
Well, people had a lot stronger ability to concentrate, obviously.
Right, they weren't distracted.
No tape talk.
Right. But even before things were written, people really had
command over language and oral traditions and their memory.
They had to remember.
You think about where to find whatever it is when you're a
forager, where to find the hunt.
All of these traditions have to be passed down for humans
to stay alive.
I mean, we're really fragile creatures.
And to think that when before there was anything except for spheres, you know, like how did how did humans stay alive? They stayed alive
because they could remember they could remember what could kill them. Yeah. Well, just like
we used to be able to remember phone numbers. Yeah. You remember? Even back then. I know.
I had so many phone numbers in my head. I still remember the phone number of the field.
Wow. I do. I do. Because do, because it was the one place.
That was my home.
Wow.
That's wild.
My mom was a survival trainer.
She trained people to survive.
And she trained us to survive.
And one of the big things was surviving the apocalypse.
But some of the survival techniques
are actually really valuable.
And that's the thing about forgiveness or anything else.
Even if somebody is telling you something that is in their own best interest valuable. And that's the thing about forgiveness or anything else. Like, you know, even if
somebody is telling you something that is in their own best interest doesn't mean it's
not true, right? And that there's so many truths in anything. And so learning to survive
like literally off the land or in the desert or things like that was a really harsh training
that I had as a kid, but it taught me to look around everywhere that I've been ever since
and to pay attention. And I mean, that's a me to look around everywhere that I've been ever since and to
pay attention.
And, I mean, that's a gift.
I think about that when I think about forgiveness too.
Like part of forgiving people is because on some level they taught you a lesson.
Well even in cults they can give you valuable skills.
Sure.
I mean, if someone could teach you survival techniques, how to survive the apocalypse.
If you're really worried about the apocalypse, you need to learn how to survive the apocalypse.
Sure. So, you know, they how to survive the apocalypse. Sure.
So, you know, they do it for good intentions.
And some of it pays off a little bit.
Well, do you remember the one in Los Angeles that had billboards up and with a very specific
date?
Oh, what was the date?
I don't remember.
But I remember there was this Thai restaurant I used to go to on Ventura
This great Thai spot and right above it was this fucking billboard
That was it was giving you a very specific date like repent the end is here and let's gonna be this time
I'm like is this is like the the most brilliant album release
Like that, you know I'm saying like some rock band has figured out a way to like make something go viral before the
internet.
I guess the internet was around then.
It was not that long ago.
I want to say like maybe eight years ago, ten years ago.
Was it?
Wow, that's pretty recent.
Here it is.
2011.
Judgment Day, May 21st, 2011.
Cry Mighty Unto God.
Monday through Friday, live open forum on familyradio.com
And what happened on May 11th?
So yeah, that was only 13 years ago.
Jamie, what happened on May 11th?
Nothing, fucking zero.
These people were out of their mind.
Like Y2K was a little like that too.
Well also December 21st 2012.
That was the end of the Mayan calendar. Oh, right, yeah.
My license plate used to be December 2012,
DEC 12, whatever it was.
But that was the end of the long count of the Mayan calendar
and all the Cougs thought that was the end of the world.
So we actually did an end of the world show in Los Angeles
with my friends from Honey Honey Band,
my friend Suzanne, Joey Diaz, Doug Stanhope.
It was wild.
And what did you do?
Nothing happened.
Nobody died.
We had a good time.
We had a good time and the world keeps going.
But there's, you know, it's just a long calendar.
It's a very bizarre ancient calendar that they don't really fully understand.
So to say that was the end of the world seems a little silly.
Well, you know, when they give these dates,
like when my grandfather gave the date of 1977, they can also say anytime it doesn't
happen that the calendars are wrong.
Pete Slauson Ah, how convenient. Do they have a good calendar? Can I see that calendar?
Danielle Pletka Well, you know, but the point is like, oh,
well, you know, with the Star of Bethlehem and all this, like, maybe that was redated
because Herod didn't want us to know, like, when Jesus was really born because he was
killing all the babies and he didn't really know the date of Jesus' birth.
That's why he was killing, you know, all the young boys as opposed to just that one and
et cetera, et cetera.
So.
Back to the lady who was around with Eve.
Who was that lady?
I assume you're talking about Lilith, but that's not in the tradition that I read.
But Lilith was supposedly,
I didn't even know Lilith existed
until like two years ago, I think.
Oh wow.
I was like, what?
Has that changed your life in some way?
Who the fuck's Lilith?
Yes.
Okay.
It was an eye opener.
I questioned everything after that.
What is the Lilith story exactly?
So again, I was not raised on the Lilith story at all. I don't know, Jamie, do you know the Lilith story? So the Lilith story exactly? So again, I was not raised on the Lilith story at all.
I don't know, Jamie, do you know the Lilith story?
I've heard some, but I feel like I'd misquote it.
So the Lilith story they decided was BS, so they left it out of the big book.
She's been interpreted as Satan?
Oh, Satan.
Well, sure.
Of course, she's a lady.
She made me do terrible things.
Well, Eve, because Satan. Of course, she's a lady. She made me do terrible things. Yeah, well, you did that too.
The original Hebrew word from which the name Lilith is taken is in the biblical Hebrew,
the Book of Isaiah, though Lilith herself is not mentioned in any biblical text.
In late antiquity and, how do you say that word?
Mandean?
How do you say that word?
Do you know?
Mandean?
Mandean and Jewish sources from 500 AD onward, Lilith appears
in historical incantations incorporating a short mythic story in various concepts and localities
that give partial descriptions of her. She is mentioned in the Babylonian Talmud, Nida, Shabbat,
She's mentioned in the Babylonian Talmud, Nadda, Shabbat, Bava, Batra, and the conflict of Adam and Eve with Satan as Adam's first wife, and in the Zohar Leviticus 19a as a
hot fiery female who first cohabitated with man.
Wow. Many rabbinic authorities, including, boy, there's another word, Maimonides, and
Menachem Mary reject the existence of Lilith. Interesting. So Lilith is controversial.
Danielle Pletka Very controversial.
Pete Slauson Like all hot ladies.
Danielle Pletka Exactly.
Pete Slauson But the fact that she was the first?
Danielle Pletka Yeah. I mean, again, that's not the tradition that most Christians are taught. I mean, it's
considered part of the Apocrypha. So, I mean, I don't have any idea what the truth is, but
she has been vilified even more than Eve. Although if you think about it, Eve's pretty
vilified too. I mean, she caused the downfall of humankind.
She's the reason why we're all here. That's right.
Yeah. It's, I mean, what's the root of that story? That's the real why we're all here. That's right. Yeah.
It's, I mean, what's the root of that story?
That's the real question.
Like, what was the original thing they were trying to convey?
I will not take a stab on that.
But at least Christianity has like an origin story, you know, an origin story for everything, for the universe, for people.
And when you didn't have science, and you didn't have any understanding of cosmology, you need something.
We need something. Thousands of years you're staring up at the stars. Anybody know what the fuck's going on up there? I know.
There's Thor, He lives up there.
And then there's Zeus.
He's running shit.
Yeah.
Well, looking at the stars is storytelling, too.
In the beginning, there was the word.
Well, I think that's one of the things that's really screwed
up human beings.
And I don't think in any small way is light pollution.
I think our inability to see that we are in this celestial, majestic
cosmos, this thing, it's not just black with a few bright lights, the whole thing is lit
up and it's the most magnificent thing you could ever see, but we sacrifice it almost
for everyone that lives in cities.
If you live in cities, you don't go anywhere and see it.
You sacrifice a humbling spiritual experience of just staring at the stars.
And I think it's spiritual poisoning.
It's like, just like if you have vitamin deficiencies. I think you have a
spiritual deficiency, just a natural, universal spiritual deficiency from not seeing the stars.
I think it puts our place in the universe in perspective like nothing else can,
because it's there, it's real, it's not a concept. It's not something
that you have to use a microscope or a telescope to see. It's right in front of you and it's
absolutely spectacular. On a clear night in the mountains where there's no light pollution,
you see the stars, you're just like, wow, is that up there every night?
Did you used to go to Joshua Tree when you lived around LA?
No, I didn't.
Oh, so Joshua Tree is still so magical for that reason
because there's no lights.
I've heard.
I've heard it's incredible out there.
Yeah, it's not too far from where I am.
And when I feel that I need to commune with something greater
than myself, you just go there and you just
lay down and look at the stars.
Light pollution is spiritual poisoning.
Agreed.
It really is.
And it's a big factor, factor I think in how lost we are and how it's you're we're not like
consistently humbled every night by the majesty of the stars. If we were
consistently humbled every night I think we'd be generally be like you could tone
people down a little bit. There is something really healing
about looking at the stars.
And there's also the ability to literally not be lost
if you know how to read the stars.
That is something I was trained by my uncle, who
was somewhat of an astronomer.
But to look at the stars and to always know where you are.
And if you know how to read the stars, you can never be lost.
So you could navigate with the stars?
If you were in a boat, could you do it?
Absolutely. I don't know if I could do it very well from a boat but I could do it by because I know
how to put like a stick in the ground and to see the difference in the way that the
Sun goes so that you can see where you are because you got to know where the North Star
is obviously but then you also have to know what time of year it is to some degree so
if you're lost for or you think you're lost for a matter of months or years you would
need to have some sort of idea where you are and if you're in the, or you think you're lost for, a matter of months or years, you would need to have some sort of idea where you are.
And if you're in the desert, it's hard to tell seasons.
But if I was on land, I could do it, yeah.
So you'd have to like add up the days.
Well, you don't even have to add up the days.
You just have to know what season you're in.
And you can tell that by the angle of the sun.
Right, but if you get lost?
Well, sure, although you don't have to do that.
And you get lost for years?
You might just never know.
So you guys are getting prepared to be lost for years.
Yeah, yeah.
My mom used to have this phrase, I think she made it up, but it's survive fear, survive
with faith.
And so she taught everyone that those five letters stand for what you should do first.
You know, so the first thing, what do you think the first thing you should do if you're
lost?
Or you think you're lost?
Get to a high space to look around.
Well, the first thing you should do is shelter. First thing? The first thing you should you're lost. Get to a high space to look around.
Well, the first thing you should do is shelter.
First thing?
The first thing you should do is shelter.
If you don't have shelter, you're
going to lose your body heat.
Depends on where you are, of course.
But if you're anywhere that gets cold,
and sometimes you don't know it's going to get cold.
Desert doesn't seem like it gets cold.
Have you been in a desert night?
Yeah, they get cold.
It's very freezing.
So shelter's the first thing.
And then fire, because the warmth is really important.
So survive fear. So it's shelter. And then fire. And then fire, because the warmth is really important. So survive fear, so it's shelter, and then fire.
And then the thing is signaling.
So if you want to be found, you put up a signal.
If you don't want to be found, you need to know
what creates a signal for people who are looking.
So for example, like if you are in the desert,
you try to find dark rocks to put SOS,
but if you don't want to be found,
you try to never put a contrast,
so you try not to have anything that would contrast
with the color of the land that a plane would see as contrast.
Jesus.
There's a lot of fun stuff like that.
So they were preparing you for hiding and for surviving.
Yeah.
And who are you going to be hiding from?
Well, so after the second coming, when everybody goes up
to heaven, who's good, all that's left is the demons in the world and there's a thousand
Years of terror that will rain upon the earth till the blood rises to the horse's bridles
Wow, and you guys were preparing for this when you were little kids. Yeah
Demons yeah, but if you're a good person you're going to heaven so you don't have to
Yeah, so that you probably have to fuck with these demons.
Yeah, so that's, you've probably heard some of those stories, right?
There's a whole books on these like left behind series.
Yes.
So like who gets left behind.
Yeah.
Didn't they do a bunch of movies?
I think so.
I think Kurt Cameron did it.
Maybe.
I heard they're amazing.
Okay.
I don't know, so I can't speak to that.
But yes, there's a lot of that Because it's part of a lot of traditions. And the idea though is that some people are left behind
in order to try to win the last people,
like all the evil people, sort of like Noah's ark, right?
Like Noah's left and he gets on this ark
and like it's his job to, I mean,
why didn't God just take Noah to heaven, right?
But like he gets this boat and he has his family
and all the animals and he gets to like stare
or clear from the flood. Or you have Sodom and Gomorrah, you have Lot,
the only good person left and he wants to like help the people in the town or Jonah
and Nineveh where he's like told to go tell the people they're bad and then like, you
know, God saves the people anyway. So there's a lot of stories of God changing his mind.
And yes, I know a lot of Bible stories.
Yeah. There's definitely a lot of stories of God changing his mind.
Yeah. So if you leave some people behind who know how to lead the army of God,
you can then proselytize and bring people into true faith or righteousness.
It's also kind of a, I don't know, a way to keep people a little bit isolated
if you're trying to teach them to do something that other people don't know
how to do.
And I was very ashamed of knowing that kind of thing.
So it's the kind of thing I talk about in Forger is I spent a lot of time really feeling like I couldn't acclimate
to the regular world later because I, you know, it's like if you're always looking at,
I'm sure Navy SEALs feel this way, but you know, you're always waiting for disaster.
Right. Yeah. And you're always thinking preemptively and what can I do to avert this disaster?
How did you get that out of your head? I still in my head Joe for real. Yeah, really? Yeah
So right now you're preparing for the end of the world. Well, you know, I walked in your lair and I'm like, okay
There's all dudes here. Where's the exits like no, but I mean to some degree
I mean, I'm not actively preparing but I feel like I
Yeah, I mean it makes it really hard to trust people when you've been trained that the people that you
think you can trust are going to betray you.
Right.
Right.
Yeah.
Really hard to get that out of your head.
I had a friend who was a Mormon, and when they left, she was like in her 40s.
And she said she became really susceptible to any kind of like spiritual people, spirituality, like con people.
She just had this distrusting nature from being like a strict Mormon her whole life
and then all of a sudden cut loose and didn't know to distrust people.
Absolutely.
It wasn't programmed in.
Because if you're only around people who are homogenous and they're like you're taught,
which I was, that like everybody in your group is trustworthy, you don't see the signs.
You don't know, I mean, you don't know the red flags as people would say.
She also said like she found herself to be susceptible to people telling her things.
Like she just had like this automatic inclination to not question and believe things
that came from being strict, strict religion. Right. Why did she leave in her 40s? I don't know. That's a tough
time to leave. Yeah. Yeah. I don't know what the story behind it was exactly. I
never got into it. Well that's the thing about cults is it does make it really
difficult to survive on the outside and I certainly know a lot of people have
taken their lives after being excommunicated from the fields. And I had a dear friend,
the first person who ever told me that used that word that is occult. And I had been out
for years and I didn't, I mean, it's not like I never heard the word, but I didn't apply
it to the way we were raised. And he had written newspaper articles, he was a professor, etc. And he took his life because it was really, really, really hard to live on the outside.
Yeah.
And there's been many others who have done that as well.
And there's also people who are ashamed once they reintegrate into society.
They were part of that.
They got duped into this nonsense.
And so you hide it.
Most people, it's like, it's not like you're telling people and they're laughing at you.
You're not telling anyone because you're scared they're going to laugh at you or judge you.
And so you spend your life in shame hiding this truth that honestly doesn't make you
a bad person at all and probably many people would understand, but you don't talk about
it.
I didn't talk about it forever.
Not just that, but everybody's susceptible to it, whether you believe it or not, especially
if you were a child.
Everybody's susceptible.
This ridiculous idea people have that,
oh, I would have known better.
I don't think you would.
I really don't.
I think you would now, but you're you now.
You're a 35-year-old you.
You're not that you that was five years old.
And if that had been consistently perpetuated onto you,
you wouldn't know.
So there's a story we were raised with, which is a really common biblical story of Abraham and
Isaac and Abraham is told to kill his son, his only son, and he's told to like
take him up on an altar and slaughter him and the way that you would slaughter an
animal. And Abraham like makes Isaac do this hike up to this mountain where he's
going to kill him and he, God has told him he must do this and so he like ties his own son on this altar and brings up the knife to kill him. And God has told him he must do this, and so he like ties his own son on
this altar and brings up the knife to kill him. And like very dramatically, you know,
the story, you know, comes and as he's plunging down the knife, an angel comes and grabs his
wrist and stops. And God said, I just wanted to make sure you'd really do it. And this
is the story I was raised on and both my parents and my grandfather were very big on like,
you will kill your child if God asks you to, that's what you're supposed to do. And I said this in the book and my brother
who, you know, we really haven't talked about these, or we have now, but at the time we
hadn't really talked about this. This was like all of a year ago. And he said when he
read it, he thought, no, it's not that our parents would have sacrificed this, they did
sacrifice us because they believed that somebody else would take care of us and we were raised very,
you know, I don't know if communally is exactly the truth because there wasn't necessarily
anyone who was checking, but there was random people who, in my case, a lot of men who just
raised us because our parents had more important things that God told them to do.
And so there's a lot of ways to sacrifice kids.
There's a lot of ways to think that. There's a lot of ways to think that you know, God is talking to you. Yeah
You could apply that to other aspects of culture. Absolutely. Um, it is
It is there like groups of people that get together that have survived cults that have
Ability to like help each other through this so apparently there, and I didn't know about this until the last year,
there's a whole huge group of people who have come out of like Hasidic Jews, like Orthodox
Hasidic Jews, but there's also Steve Hassan. He's a doctor who spoke on Megyn Kelly when I was on
that show too, and he has something called the bite method, which is just
basically says that there's these really four major ways
of control that cults do.
They control your behavior, your information, your thoughts,
and your emotions.
And so he has these deprogramming systems
and counselors and people who can help you
if you've been in that kind of high control group,
even if it wasn't religious in nature.
Yeah, I've talked to that dude before.
Have you talked to him?
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah.
It's um.
I think he was a Mooney, right?
Yes.
So, mm-hmm.
Yeah, his, the whole thing of like,
his ex-communication and how he got free of it.
When you were breaking free, what age were you?
17.
You're 17.
And what was it like, like trying to integrate with regular people out there in the world breaking free, what age were you? 17. You're 17.
And what was it like trying to integrate with regular people out there in the world when
you were 17?
I don't think I did that very effectively at all.
How could you?
Yeah, I just couldn't.
So I got married.
What was the experience like?
Of like all of a sudden, you go from being this incredibly controlling religious cult
that thinks the end of the world is coming to regular world?
So it wasn't entirely all of a sudden.
I had a childhood illness, an autoimmune disease, which was probably, I mean, there's no genetic
nature to these diseases, but where your body attacks itself.
So it's quite probable that my body was just like, I can't take this anymore because I
mean-
Stress.
Yes.
And also there's a lot of deprivation, sleep deprivation,
you know, when you're in survival training,
a lot of extreme deprivation.
So how long does survival training go for?
Well, because I was born there.
And also, because I was sick and because of other things,
I was trained for a very long time, pretty much.
We moved up there full time up to the mountain, which
I talk about in the book, Forger.
We moved up there when I was almost eight. And so I was up there full-time up to the mountain, which I talk about in the book, Forger. We moved up there when I was almost eight.
And so I was up there until I left.
And you were foraging?
Yeah.
Yeah.
I mean, there was other things going on too.
But so I got sick and then I was hungry and there was a lot of other things happening.
And so I found a way to start housecleaning for people.
And that's how I got an application to college and stuff like that.
But I was a house cleaner. And so that was kind of a foray into learning about how other people lived, even though
it wasn't like I was invited into their family.
I was invited into their things.
But you can learn a lot when you see a refrigerator that has food in it.
What was it like just cleaning people's houses, just seeing how these weird people lived in
the outside world?
Did you ever see the Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt? I did. Hilarious. just seeing how these weird people lived in the outside world.
Did you ever see the Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt?
I did, yeah.
Hilarious!
So many people were like,
Hey, they made a show about you!
It's kind of you!
It is.
And you know what?
That is very much the way that she's just like confused by the smallest things.
I mean, it's funny the way that they depict it, but it's also kind of dark.
I mean, I actually liked the dark humor in that.
It's a great show.
And Handmaid's Tale too.
I got a lot of calls about that one.
They made another show about you.
But I think that there's real truth
to the things that confuse you.
And I didn't have any friends.
I went to college, I didn't know how to have relationships.
There's a lot of rules, apparently,
unspoken rules about the dance of friendship.
And I had never made a friend because I was born with the people I was born with and I didn't know how to do
That wow, I didn't know how to date. I didn't know how to like be I
Didn't know any of the rules and it took me a very long time to learn them
I what a crazy crash course will you open about your past no people no absolutely not I wasn't hoping
They just thought you were weird
past these people? No, no, absolutely not.
I wasn't hoping.
They just thought you were weird.
Yeah.
One dude called me an ice queen.
Oh boy.
Because I was just really separate.
You know, I didn't know how to, and I, I didn't
drink or smoke or do any of those things because
I was so afraid of losing control.
I was so afraid that if I, I also felt like I was
in a huge hole that I had to dig my way out of in
order to find a way to live in the outside world.
And so I couldn't afford to like,
I didn't know who to trust and who not to trust.
And I mean, some of my friends now even,
and my friends have become my family
and my brother's like that too.
He has just the most amazing friends who are his family
and they will still call me feral.
They're like, you still don't know how to,
I mean, like I still don't understand
the point of utensils.
I mean, like I can do it and I know which fork to eat from but like I don't want to you know
You want to eat with your fingers? Yeah. Yeah. I mean, you know, I can eat with utensils, but it's not if
I'm not in polite company. I'm eating with my hands. Yeah, isn't it interesting that like eating with your hands is thought to be gross
But some things you have to eat with your hands like if you're eating ribs
How you gonna eat ribs if you eat ribs with your hands. Like if you're eating ribs, how are you going to eat ribs?
If you eat ribs with a fork and knife, you're a fucking asshole.
If you got a big old Texas beef rib, you have to eat that thing with your face.
You have to get in there.
You have to use your hands.
Isn't it weird?
Yeah, it's interesting and it's just cultural.
But there's something we do in Western culture because we're so in our minds instead of our bodies
We're always separating ourselves
So we need this like piece of metal that keeps us like from the reality that we're like fucking eating an animal or yeah
You know whatever it is we're devouring and somehow it's more polite if you have this piece of metal between you and it bizarre
It is and it definitely keeps your hands cleaner. You know, it's easier to pick the food up
And you feel like you know, look at me. I'm in a restaurant, I got a napkin tucked in
here.
Yeah, a lot of rules, you have to have that on your lap and you know.
Right, and which side is the salad fork, which side's, which one's the regular fork.
Yeah, starting the outside in, yeah.
Yeah, bizarre.
Yeah.
So when you are learning these things, you have to like actually memorize them, you know,
like when you don't come from it, because you're like, there's a lot of rules.
And all of them have systems.
So I'm very actually fascinated by microcosms.
The microcosm cultures of any sort of culture
has a lot of rules attached to it.
Sure.
You have to.
Well, you must be hyper aware of that.
I feel like I am, yeah.
Yeah, you have to be.
Yeah, patterns that people just take for granted you're like oh interesting
The thing about like not knowing where the forks and knives go to me is one of the dumbest ones of all time
Because it's like a sign that you're a cultured person if you know where the for it has to be proper like it like what are
We doing what do you gonna have a boring ass conversation with a bunch of people?
Or do you want to sit down and have a meal and talk like that's the fun kind of like what the fuck we do
And like who's proper who are we impressing?
This is the Queen coming by like what is this? This is why would you want this?
Well, haven't you experienced though that sometimes when you get rid of all that you just have a much more intimate conversation
Oh, yeah, I like to eat on the floor I like to eat on the floor. I like to sit on the
floor and I have this beautiful rug in my house and I'm like if people will do
it I invite them to sit on the floor because it just feels more organic to me
and it feels earthier and it feels just like I don't know it just removes all
the hierarchies. Have you ever seen those Middle Eastern guys all sitting
around an enormous plate of food and they're all
just sitting cross-legged just digging in with their hands and eating with their hands.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Well if your hands are clean.
Yeah, well the whole idea is you never shake someone's hand with your left hand.
Right.
Because that's the hand you use to wipe your ass.
Right.
So they think we're gross because we use paper and we just smudge it all over the place.
Well.
And they got a point.
They got a really good point.
Like it is one of the grossest things. If you one of those bidet toilets, you will never go back
You'll never go back like how gross is it just smear it all over the place. So they have
You're allowed to eat with your hands. You're supposed to eat with your hands. It's just a normal thing
Like most of the time it's normal. How do you eat popcorn? Do you use a spoon? I feel so validated right now
Yeah, how do you eat popcorn? Do you eat a spoon? I feel so validated right now. Yeah.
How do you eat popcorn?
Do you eat popcorn?
OK.
Well, do you eat with your fucking hands?
Period.
And bread.
Yeah, bread.
Exactly.
Exactly, bread.
Who's cutting bread with a fork and knife?
That's ridiculous.
You eat with your hands.
I guess it's just the messiness of it.
But I think if you can get people to act proper,
the conversations are going like stay within the lines
Yeah, you know, maybe that's it. Maybe you know if you go to an inn and everybody's eating chicken legs and drinking beer and
They're gonna have a crazy stories. Yeah, it's gonna get uncomfortable
Just keep people make them wear their nicest clothes
They don't want to get messy and give them a fork and a knife and keep everybody proper and everyone's trying to press everybody else
With how proper they are and how much they know about fine dining.
May I see this sommelier to make a wine selection? You know all of it.
I remember the first time you know someone came to pour this glass of wine or whatever
and then the guy is supposed to like take a sip of it to tell the guy if it's okay.
And I'm like what kind of culture is this? I mean also and what are you
gonna say if it's not. And I'm like, what kind of culture is this? And what are you going
to say if it's not?
By the way, that is the most bullshitty, bullshitty moment you ever have in a restaurant. You
swirl that thing around, take a sniff and sip. Unless you really know what you're doing,
99.9% of the people doing that have no fucking idea what they're doing.
Absolutely. And I don't know if this is a fact, but I have never had anyone offer it to me.
They always offer it to the man, and the man decides whether or not it's a wine good enough
for the lady.
Oh, that's interesting.
No, I've definitely seen women get it.
Really?
Yeah, if a woman orders a bottle of wine.
It's generally like whoever orders it.
I've seen that.
Okay, I'm going to watch that.
Yeah.
But I think maybe that's just modern today.
Maybe that's like a new thing, you know,
with women's liberation and stuff,
like people don't want to be resumptuous,
so they'll offer the woman a taste.
No one has ever offered me a taste.
Interesting. Even if you've ordered the bottle?
Maybe I've never ordered a bottle.
Maybe that's what it is.
I think it's generally the person who orders it.
That may be. Yeah.
But I also wouldn't have any idea if that was...
Because if I'm around a group of my friends
and we order a bottle of wine, if if I ask they always bring it to me
But if one of my friends asked they always bring it to them. Hmm. Yeah, I think it's generally the person who orders it
I think but I don't know. I think it's probably just rules, but I would imagine
That like women get offered less
The whole time I would imagine if I was like an old-school Somali
I would assume the lady would not be making the choice.
Do you know anything about Sikhs?
Sikhs the religion?
Uh-huh.
Not too much.
Which is really more culture than a religion. But this is about wine. I didn't change the
subject. So they have this, they do not drink unless the person they are with is drinking
and they don't want to be rude or whatever. So they're not allowed to order wine. But
if you order wine and you pour it for them, they can drink. And that's
the same thing about smoking. They also never cut their hair. There's a lot of things, but
I have a Sikh friend and he taught me, I couldn't figure it out at the beginning because I'd
be like, why does he keep asking me to order? Like he'd be like, you order. I said, no,
no, no, you order. I don't, I don't know what I want. You know, like whatever. And he'd
be like, no, no, you need to order the bottle of wine. And if I ordered it, even though he told me to order it
and he was paying for it, then he could drink it.
What a goofy rule.
No.
What a workaround.
So that's the thing.
I mean, there's just all these cultures have different traditions.
And yeah.
Yeah.
Do you know what Sikhs do have?
They have this crazy yogurt-cannabis mixture.
I did not know that.
That's supposed to be bomb diggity. What is that stuff called Jamie?
Yeah, yeah, Duncan taught me about it
Like they they have had it. No, they have some like edible
THC yogurt thing that's supposed to be insane. He's giving it to you
Okay
Many different ways of making bong lassi. The traditional method is to blend fresh cannabis leaves,
plain yogurt, a pinch of sugar,
and nuts like almonds and pistachios
along with spices and ginger powder,
fennel seeds, cardamom and peppercorn, and water.
Wow. Yeah.
That's concoction.
Click on that?
What does it say at the top?
Oh wait, why have you not tried this?
The world's oldest cannabis treat. yeah, I probably should try it
I think you should yeah, but I guess these guys
Take that stuff and get blasted. Yeah, it's a really old and rich tradition
And they are very humble and kind people the culture very pacifist and etc etc
But probably that's what they've been doing.
Yeah, they're chilling.
Yeah.
They're in a good head space.
Yeah.
So that's an example of a group of humans
following a pattern that seems to be beneficial.
It seems to like they've got a harmonious relationship
with each other.
They do.
But their work around, we can joke about the work around.
But the thing their work around does
means that when they
associate with outsiders, they don't stick to their own custom. They accept
the customs of the outsider. Right. And they work around it by the other person
having the order. Right, but they participate in it. And because they participate it, they don't keep
themselves as narrow-minded. I mean, cold people, they're definitely, no matter who
pours you that glass of wine, you're not allowed to drink it. My dad was in the
military and he was like, I mean, he was drafted, but he of wine, you're not allowed to drink it. My dad was in the military and he was like, I mean he was drafted, but he was like,
no one could get me to drink except alcohol,
et cetera, et cetera.
Like, he was very proud of his ability to be separate.
And so it's really difficult to have friendships in a cult,
by the way.
You think that it's so great because you're all in unison,
but one of the things that people who have gotten out,
maybe they still have family members there,
is that the people who are left there,
they don't have any real friends
because anybody would report on anybody.
There's no loyalty.
You can't tell a joke.
You can't laugh at a joke.
You can't like, there's really a lot of things that are forbidden that are, I think, required
for friendship.
And so I had to learn that when I got on the outside and I look back and I think I was
really impoverished by knowing people and moving in unison and having comfort, but not
really having the experience of trust. And so how did you, how long did it take and how, what steps
did you go about to sort of like create your own version of the world? I feel
like there's really good ways to do this and I did not do any of them.
I mean I was in college so I you know whatever I learned things academically but what I didn't
learn is like in my body.
I feel like I had four children really quickly, really young and then I think I raised myself
with them.
I used to do this thing when my babies were little where I was reading about other cultures
because I didn't even know what an American culture really
was, and so I read about Japan, for example,
which at the time they were saying basically you
don't say no to a child until they're five
because you want to give them a sense of autonomy,
and then you start putting the structure there.
So anyway, I had these index cards
and I put them all over my house and they
said that they had the values that I wanted for my kids, like resiliency, humor,
agency, whatever.
And so, and then on the back, I would put the techniques.
So for example, I didn't put restraints,
like I didn't use playpins or whatever.
I just tried to create a safe environment
and then I did these things like,
they should be able to find me
but I shouldn't always be present.
So I would say, hi, I'm gonna be working right here
in this room, like to a one-year-old, right?
And they're like, anytime you want me, I'm right here.
But then like remove myself from sight
so they felt that they were in control
of the relationship and just all this stuff.
But I did it so cerebrally, you know?
And so I think by raising them, I raised myself.
Wow.
But it did take me a long time to have friends though.
I don't think I had friends till my 30s because like any genuine friends because I didn't
know how to be vulnerable and I didn't trust anyone.
Like I would be friends with somebody for like six, seven years before I'd mention anything
about where I came from.
So how did you figure out how to open up?
I'm still working on it.
Still working on it?
I think you're doing great.
I'm trying it with you Joe.
Well just the fact that you get the way you communicate about it. You're so open
about it and I mean I can't imagine what that's like. I can't imagine what that
life is like. What your childhood was like with being 17 and just being out in
the world on your own trying to decipher what the fuck the outside world does.
Yeah, and I didn't understand parents either, like people's relationships with their parents.
Like I didn't ever have, like my dad never bought me a meal in my life.
Like he never, even later in life when I reconnected or whatever, it's like I would always have to pay.
There was never this sense that my parents were giving us, you know, like it was always us giving to them.
And I felt like I didn't understand,
I feel like I still have a little struggle with like,
I was like, why are they taking such good care of you?
You know, it's like this, I don't know,
it disconnect as far as what it looks like to be a family.
And my definition of family is whiter
than biology, of course.
Right, because like your grandfather
wasn't really your grandfather, right?
He was.
He was your grandfather.
He actually was my biological grandfather.
But the other kids that we were raised with,
all called him grandpa.
Right.
And so I didn't know the difference.
But he was my actual.
So there was a lot of people that were family,
but they weren't related.
Right.
And then, of course, once I left, I had to make new family
as well, and my friendships with my family.
Well, it makes sense that it would take you into your 30s, because it's, I had to make new family as well and my friendships with my family.
Well, it makes sense that it would take you into your 30s because you have to relearn
life so you're going through 1 through 17 again.
Yeah, yeah, it takes you that much more time.
Did you see the movie Poor Things?
No.
Okay, well, just this idea that if you put a child's brain in an adult body, that's what that story's about. It's kind
of like a Frankenstein sort of thing.
Who's in that movie?
Emma Stone. Emma Stone is in it.
Is that a recent movie?
Yes.
There's a bunch of those, like, she did win Oscar. Like, I pay attention.
But it's not about religion. Well, she does call, she calls the guy God, who created her,
because his last name's Godwin. I think it's Godwin, right, Jamie? But it's, she calls him God. So there's like a religious parable, but it's not
specifically about religion. But I think that's what I was like. I was like a, which
I feel like I'm still recovering from. What year is this supposed to be
taking place in? It's surrealistic. So it's kind of Victorian, but it's sensationalized.
It's almost like Diego Rivera crossed with,
like, oh yeah, you can see part of it's in black and white
and then she starts seeing in color.
How do I not know about this?
Yeah, I don't know how you don't know about this.
I'm so out of the loop.
There's just too many things to pay attention to.
I feel like I just taught you something.
You definitely did.
But there's just too many things to pay attention to today.
Yeah, there are, there are too many.
But in any case, it's an adult brain put today. Yeah, there are. There are too many. Too many movies, too many things.
But in any case, it's an adult brain put in, I mean, sorry, a child's brain.
It's actually her unborn fetus that gets put into this body.
She dies and so the baby dies or the baby doesn't quite die so that brain gets put into
this adult woman.
But in any case, that's what I felt like.
I felt like I was this adult body who just had an
infant brain and I think it just took me so long. So I don't come
from, I feel like I don't come from an era too, like kind of like the way that
movie's depicted. It felt like there was no music. I don't relate to the
music of my generation because I never heard it. And so people, you know, like
people are just sort of like everyone should sort of like the same kind of
thing and I don't have, I never, I didn't go to concerts
when I was a teenager ever, I never.
So I didn't have any idea what that felt like.
And so I don't associate with that with youth, for example.
Did you guys listen to any music?
I sang a lot of hymns.
Hymns. A lot of hymns.
Mostly just Christian hymns, right?
All Christian hymns.
But John Wesley, there was a lot of,
I don't know if you know who John Wesley is, but he wrote a lot of hymns, right? All Christian hymns, but John Wesley, there was a lot of, I don't know if you know
who John Wesley is, but he wrote a lot of hymns.
And you know, like in the, I think 1600s,
could you fact check that, Jamie?
But it was, he wrote so many songs,
and I knew all the lyrics to those,
I knew how to sing in harmony, and.
So when you were kids, like we guys would rock out,
you'd just rock out and sing hymns?
Well, yeah, pretty much. So when was- But it wasn Yeah pretty much. So when was the first time you heard another song? You know the
thing that I got ultimately kicked out for was going to a movie with a boy who
was raised with me he was a young man he had left and he was a college kid and I
was 17 and I went to the color purple and there was music in that and I
Really allowed to see movies. No, had you seen one before?
No, the color purple is the first movie you ever saw to my knowledge. Yes
So that really changed my life and then I started watching movies when I got to college
What was it like going to a movie at 17 for the first time?
magic like going to a movie at 17 for the first time? Magic. Like the most beautiful church. It was so beautiful. It was like, it was, I mean just the
darkness and then the way that the screen lit up and I just, it was so beautiful. I just felt.
I think we take it for granted, right? Yeah, it just made me cry.
beautiful. I just think we take it for granted right? Yeah it just made me cry. You're wild. But and that was the first time you heard other music too. Yeah and
so I didn't start listening to pop in their music though it took me a while to
like acclimate even once I got out like I knew that other people were doing it
but the first time like I maybe bought a CD for example I think I was 30. Wow. Like
I just didn't because I had babies young I just didn't, because I had babies young,
I just didn't, I did all that in my early 20s.
I had all these little kids and I was doing, you know,
the mom thing and trying to get myself educated
so I could, you know, make good money
and take care of everybody and it just felt like
there wasn't time for that.
So I didn't have a youth and so I met a music critic when I was in my 30s.
I'm actually putting this in my next book,
which is actually called, Prodigal Daughter.
And he introduced me to the songs of,
it was in the early 2000s,
and he introduced me to the songs of the 90s
and taught me like, you know,
the derivations of, you know,
the beats and the lyrics.
And he had come from a pastor father.
So he understood, you know,
religion in relation to music. And it was just this wonderful music education so I did all
that I mean I really think I came into understanding music in my 30s.
You're like almost like an alien.
Yes very much.
Like an alien version of a human being that they dropped off at 17 years old like what
am I doing here?
It's shocking to me how long it takes to figure it out,
even when you think, like, you can learn to,
you know what it is, I could learn to code switch
and I could learn to be presentable on the outside,
like I could learn which fork to use really quickly,
that you can learn, but you can't learn to feel
the other things that other people feel.
And so you're always just a little bit disconnected
as being kind of in a bell jar or something
Like there's always a distance between or there was for just a long time between me and someone else
And so for example my brother who loves you as I told you
He I went to his birthday party recently and they're like you have a sister like he never even talked about his family
They didn't even know and he's like, yeah, she just wrote a book
You should like read it so you could figure out who where I come from, you know
Because he never told his very best friends who he had been like friends with for over 20 years
Like he never told them and I think that you know, and he he looks really normal, you know
Like he has but he didn't have the ability I think to really
To really maybe gauge the way that it affected him
Yeah, and we as a family, you know
the siblings all kind of went different directions
because, like, it's painful to go back and relive it.
And you don't, it just feels like you're always going
backwards if you try to be around where you come from.
And you just want to, you just want to, like, live in the world
and, you know, find a new identity.
Wow.
So there's long-term consequences
for coming out of something like this. Oh, for sure. How could it not be? Yeah. I mean, just there's so many things that can
happen to a child when they're young that will screw them up forever. But the fact that
you had no understanding of the outside world and you fully believed all this stuff that
you're being told, you learn how to forage and survive in the woods and
Then you get released and then you're out in the world because you want to see the color purple
Crazy it's such a crazy story
But the outside world is really complicated because there's so many different belief systems out here.
Yeah. Were you at a rush to try to find a new one?
I was in a rush for everything because I didn't think I was going to live very long because I was
still inside my head that I was A, breaking. I mean, even now, to be honest, writing about this,
so this is what the former field people have said to me all the time, is like, nobody's ever talked
about this publicly. We were trained, once you're in the people have said to me all the time. It's like nobody's ever talked about this publicly. We were trained, you know, like
once you're in the field, you're always in the field. Like it's like being a Marine or something.
Like these are our brothers and sisters in arms and you never allowed to talk about this. So to
come out with the book, it was the first time that anyone has spoken publicly about this particular
cult. And I was raised, of course, to believe I'd be struck dead by lightning if I ever talked about it.
And so there were so many years that I think
it was just so painful to even think about, I think.
You know, where I come from.
So I mean, I'm kind of going around a circle
to answer that question, but it felt like
it's been very recent that I can own that
as being an essential part of my identity.
Wow. How did you, do you attribute it any specific, like is it meditation, is it yoga,
like what is it that sort of has allowed you to kind of regain your life?
Have you heard the expression or the word biophilia?
No.
So biophilia is the love of living things
and it's not specifically environmental.
It was coined in 1973, I think, by Eric Fromm.
And it is the love of living things.
So it's not just humans, but it's animals, plants, whatever.
And so I think that because I was raised
understanding the natural environment, I really feel like
when I've been lost in the world, you know, and or you think you're lost, I don't know
if we can ever truly be lost.
I think that we're just learning what's around us that isn't working.
Like that's always information that can if if you know what to look for, there's always
information that can get you where you want to go.
You just need to know where you want to go.
Right. So I feel like putting my feet in the dirt. So you know, kind of like, you
know, but like being in my body and being on the earth. And I think yoga helps with
that, even if you're not doing it on the grass, although I do teach outside sometimes. But
like, if you can find yourself like what you're connected to, that feels solid. That feels
like something you can believe in. Right? Because it's not about an idea. It's like,
I am held by gravity right now.
Like this gravity is holding me into the earth.
And this earth, like it is capable of nurturing seeds.
Like things grow out of this earth.
Like we forget that I think sometimes
in our contemporary culture
that everything comes out of the earth.
And so I think that one of the practices,
I do meditate, but I meditated before I came here today,
but I think that like if I can be under a tree, you know, and like on the earth in some way,
then I feel like that, I guess it's that neuroplasticity thing, like I can always grow.
Like there's, that there's no point at which I'm separate. And I think there's that part of practice
of being like, no, I'm truly connected and all the things they taught me was a way of keeping me separate, but I can always go back to
the source itself. Yeah, I think when we were talking about the sky, the light pollution,
being a spiritual deficiency, I think we have that also from the forests. I think there's something
that connects us when we're in the wilderness, There's a feeling that you get when you is a
There's a humbleness that comes about you a humility that you have to accept
That the wilderness is so vast and powerful and amazing that it puts you in check
It gives you like this feeling of connectedness to everything
We think when we're living in cities and we're getting Ubers and we're going to restaurants, we think we're disconnected from nature because we've
kind of set it up that way. We set our own little hamster wheel up over nature
but we're missing something by doing that. We're missing something. We are nature.
Yeah we are. We really are. We are nature. We just create our forks. Let's go back to that metaphor and that literal thing.
But we separate ourselves
from the reality that we eat straight from the earth. And most people, they eat animals
that are alive on the earth. And that thing was a living creature. And you are devouring
it. And that is so primal.
Yeah. Life eats life.
Yeah. And we all come from the wilderness. We really do. For hundreds of thousands of
years, we were way, way... I mean, it astronomically like longer that we spent foraging than we did civilization. Yeah. With an agriculture.
I mean, agriculture is relatively new. Yep. And so we all come from that. So when we get
there, I think it is something that is inside of us. And I think we would all benefit, at
least I benefit, I shouldn't preach this to anyone else, but I think we benefit when we connect to it.
I think all human beings share that.
The only people that, you have to be like really,
really neurotic and like a crazy city dweller,
like get me out of the woods.
I hate it out here, it's so quiet.
There are a lot of people who are like that.
They're out there smoking cigarettes.
Bobby, when we fucking going home, this is terrible.
There's gotta be people like that.
There are.
People that are just like, there are people that get acclimated to those particular cultures
too, right?
There's people that maybe there's a thing that they do in their city that they can't
be without.
And they need that thing.
They think they need it.
Yeah.
Oh yeah, for sure.
But like gambling addicts.
I have a friend who's a gambling addict, lives in Vegas.
I'm never leaving Vegas.
Because once a gamble all the time
If that's the place, you know, that's the place for you you can't get that guy to live in the woods
You know, there's no card games out there. But there's a lot of adrenaline if you're looking for it. Oh, yeah It's a different kind of adrenaline. Yeah, but it's also there's a lot
Like I said the humility that the woods give you if it first of all it's so hard to just get around it's fucking hard to get around where there's no
roads and shit and everything yeah but you actually can get GPS out there not
everywhere handheld not everywhere what do you mean well I suppose if you have a
specific device but your phone is not going to work in plenty of places and I
wonder I know I know there's places phones But the new phones don't new phones use
Actual global positioning satellites so that it works even without a cell phone signal. I think
iPhones do that. I think Samsung phones do that too. I think do they I think they do
Is it limited you can send one not like one but like if you're stuck no, no, no, no
You misunderstand what I'm saying. No, you miss miss you misunderstand what I'm saying. Yeah, there is satellite messaging
But what I'm saying is GPS could coordinates that your maps work
I think your maps still work even if you don't have cell phone signal
You can't put in I can tell you this if you're in a forest
It's not going to tell you which way to go because it hasn't been mapped in that way.
Like it's not going to tell you turn left in 50 yards.
Right, right, right. Yeah, right. You get GPS, but you don't get directions.
You won't get directions. You're going to have to trust something else.
Siri, tell me how to get home.
Right. So you're going to have to find some other ways to identify.
Yeah, you'll have to actually look at the terrain on your GPS unit and figure out which way to go
Yes, you can do that, but you can pick a waypoint and it'll actually steer you towards a waypoint
And what if you don't have your device on you?
You're fucked
No, no, you can actually you can actually oh no, no, no, I mean you're fucked. I'm fucked
You're not fucked.
An iPhone's GPS will work fine without cell phone coverage.
Your phone will know where it is,
but you will not be able to see your location displayed
on Apple Maps without a data connection to download the map.
What does that mean?
That makes it a little bit tough to get a phone.
So it knows where you are.
The GPS will work fine, but so could
you just download the map of the entire country and leave it on your phone? So I know you
can do that with certain apps like there's Onyx, Onyx Hunt. It's a map app application
for wilderness hunters and you can use that and you download areas and you you have them regardless of cell phone service
So you can tell where you're at that may work, but most people on this planet have not done that. Yeah, you're fucked
Yeah, you're fucked. If you don't know where the North Star is, you know how to figure out what north south east and west
Yeah, you're in trouble. You don't know where the Sun rises and some people even know no, you're right
They don't they don't know they have no idea a lot of people live in the city
Which way does the Sun set north? people don't even know no you're right. They don't they don't even know they have no idea a lot of people live in the city Which way does the Sun set north? I don't fucking know
Probably north and they just start going that they think they're going north
They're going deeper into the woods and you know another thing about like going deeper in the woods like humans are prone to circular movement
So if you don't know that you will just keep walking in circles
And so you could see the north and you can stick keep walking like kind of towards it
But you're gonna veer slightly
and you're gonna find yourself right back
where you came from.
So it's not good.
And you have to figure out a strategy to keep yourself
from doing that because you will naturally,
they've done all sorts of studies on this
and humans walk in circles.
Why do they do that? That's what we do.
I don't know.
Why do we do that?
It's something in our brain
where we don't really understand what it is
to walk in a straight line.
We should get real prodigal son about that too, I think.
Getting lost in the woods has to be one of the most terrifying experiences.
Do you know what you should do if you get lost in the woods?
What?
The first thing you should do is stop moving.
Stop moving.
Stay put.
Yeah, stay put.
You really need to create a shelter and come up with a plan. You really, just walking around, you're not going to get out.
People have died, I mean, you probably heard this, but on the Appalachian Trail and stuff,
they'll go off the trail for like 10 feet or something to pee, but it's like in a bush
or whatever, and then they lose track of where the trail is, and they will die 20 feet away
from the trail because they moved around and they exerted all their energy and whatever.
If they had just stayed put and waited for the sunrise and they moved around and they exerted all their energy and whatever.
If they had just stayed put and waited for the sunrise and did, you know, whatever.
And then they figured out a system like by watching the sky or if they had your, we should
all download all the maps and make sure we have GPS on our phones.
But you know, people just, I mean, there's all these stories.
My daughter was telling me that one of the nurses, and she's so capable, she and her
sister took her daughter, so it was like the two sisters, so the aunt and the mother
and the teenage daughter, and they were saying, okay, wait, like they were camping. And they
went just on a little like a little hike out, you know, right next to the campground. And
her husband knew which campground she was at. They died just 100 yards away because
they didn't have any idea how to do basic survival. Actually, the teenager
lived because the mother and the aunt gave her all their clothes and they covered her
and everything and she survived and they both died. Yeah, horrible stories. The things that
people don't know about the wilderness. So stay put if you're not good at this. Yeah,
there's a lot of tragic stories. Jesus. It's so unforgiving out there. Yeah, and so many people have no idea
how to even navigate. And you can't, most people are out of shape, you can't even walk
up hills. There's that too, but you get stuck out there, you're fucked. But we survived as a
species out there, so the thing is, it really is about knowledge. And I mean,
living a city would be impossible for prehistoric people too, like just, I mean,
cars are so fast.
Like how do we avoid getting hit?
They would get mugged so quick.
Yeah, they would definitely get mugged.
If they had a car, they wouldn't lock it.
And they would get run over.
Yeah, they would never figure out how to drive a car.
No one's going to teach them.
Oh yeah, it would be so, I mean, you imagine moving at those speeds.
But the point is you can understand the wilderness, but people don't.
And then, in a sense, they're not humble enough, right?
They don't understand that there's something terrifying if you don't know what you're
facing.
And it's interesting that the disconnect from nature that we get with cities enables
people to create things where you don't need nature anymore.
Where you get supermarkets, trucks, all those inventions, everything's coming out of cities,
and it's all getting constructed, built,
put together by a group of people living in cities.
And it all comes from nature, but nobody sees that
because it's so many steps removed.
Right, but whatever it does,
it removes you further and further from nature.
Yeah.
Like all the things that we make remove us
further and further from nature, shield us from nature.
I feel like a lot of the high control group culty things
is as far removed from nature as possible too.
I mean, like my mom was really an exception in this way.
My dad didn't learn the survival stuff.
It was just my mom.
But there's this idea, I think, that if we could understand
our true nature, we'd be a lot less susceptible to all sorts
of control, right?
Because we would understand that we don't have control
and that no human who professes to have
the ultimate wisdom could possibly have it
because we would be so attached to understand.
I mean, the cycles of nature,
everything is prey and predator
and everything's part of a much larger system.
And if you saw yourself as part of that,
it would be really hard to fully believe
any one person could be the son of God in today's age.
Like if they profess to be the prophet or whatever, you would have a lot more cynicism
I think if you understood nature.
We're just so removed from it.
Yeah, no doubt.
We're very removed from it.
And that's also a problem of protecting your kids, right?
Then your kids aren't going to meet a bunch of creepy people where they can recognize
creepy people in the future. You know, I met a lot of fucking psychos.
So I know I see him coming.
I go, I know what you look like.
I've seen one of you before.
You're out of your fucking mind.
And if you don't know that and you're a 17 year old kid who just gets released from a
cult because you went to color purple, all of a sudden you're out there in the world.
Like, how'd you figure out who to trust?
Oh, it took me a long time. In fact, I've been physically assaulted. I mean, I've been
physically assaulted by people I had no idea were dangerous. Like you were some guy and
he's like, oh, I'm having this backyard barbecue or whatever and then there's nobody else there
and you don't know to leave? You're just like in the backyard and he grabs you. I mean,
my bones have been broken. I've had, because I didn't understand,
I mean I could fight back to whatever degree,
but I also, you can't fight back about somebody
who's two or three times your size, you know?
It's just really difficult, but I didn't know.
The people were dangerous.
Right, the people were dangerous in that way, right?
Whew, wow.
So it takes.
God, what a wild experience.
That would make a hell of a movie.
You know, cause like the unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt
is like really funny.
Yeah.
But like a real-
It's more fun when it's funny.
Yeah, well, she's hilarious.
That show is hilarious.
It is, I really love that show.
The gay guy, the roommate, oh my God.
What's his name again?
I don't remember, it's been a while since I saw it.
The fucking show is excellent.
It's such a funny show.
Well, I did, so after Forager came out, I was approached
to do a creative shopping agreement, whatever.
So I did write a screenplay for Forager
that is different than the book, but it is about all of this.
So we'll see what comes of it.
Well, I hope they make a movie out of it,
because it's such an insane story.
It's just kudos to you for getting through it
and becoming the person who's sitting
in front of me today. It's a wild ride.
Yeah, it's been a long journey. But it's nice to be on this side of it, I'll tell you.
How many cults are active right now in the country? Do we know?
No, we certainly don't know. But there is such a thing as a cult directory, which you
had mentioned too. So when I was on, I did a local television right at the beginning when the book came
out, Frank Buckley, and the woman who was his producer, he was asking at the end, it's
like, oh, you know, I didn't know this cult existed.
How did I not know, et cetera?
And she said, well, I did my fact checking before we booked her, and it's in the cult
directory.
And he's like, what?
There's a cult directory?
And the field is actually in the cult directory. I didn't even know that I was like whoa so
it's been reported so I think a more interesting question actually is why are
these cults not shut down I mean there's a bunch of them like you said someone
told you there's just tons of them they're active and then California and
they don't know if it's are that like freedom of speech that we have going on
isn't the real question like how do you define a cult? Yeah.
Because Scientology has tax exempt status
in the United States, which indicates that it's
a legitimate religion.
Because they sued the IRS.
And they won.
They smart.
They got thousands of dudes threatened to sue the IRS.
And they filed lawsuits.
And I guess the IRS caved and said, all right.
We don't want to deal with all this.
Well, I mean.
Which is really powerful of them.
It really is.
But also, if you declare yourself a religion, We don't want to deal with all this, which is really powerful of them. It really is.
But also, if you declare yourself a religion, then you do get tax exempt status.
But I think what makes a cult is, yeah, I mean, there's like the Steve Hasson thing
that we talked about, but this is really, really high control.
But the question is, unless the abuse is reported in real time, it's really hard to find.
And the people who are in the cult, A, don't recognize it's a cult, because nobody's in
a cult calls it a cult.
And then B, are loyal to the cult, so they're not talking.
You can't just go in and ask people, they're not going to tell you.
I would not have told you.
There's no way.
When I was there, when I was 16, I would never have this conversation.
Not just not publicly, I wouldn't have had it privately either.
Yeah, I mean, you don't think it's a cult if it's the truth.
If you think it's the truth, you think this isn't a cult.
We're just the people living the right way.
Right.
Yeah.
But there's a lot of people who believe that, I think.
Yeah.
About themselves.
They believe that about religions too.
I mean, the fact that people want to say that there's like, there's certain people that
talk historically about the Christian religion and they refer to it as a cult, like just historically, like this is the Christian cult and this is what they
did. Like as you would say, this is the Hindu cult, this is the this cult, that cult. They
don't think of it as... We have this problem like religion, cult, different things. But
it's groups of people that have very specific rules that
you need to live by that's mandated by a higher power.
Yes.
Like, if you just break it down to what the ingredients are, like, you can tell me it's
a steak, but it has all the ingredients of a carrot cake. I think this might be a carrot
cake. No, no, no. We call it a steak. But it seems like it's got carrots. It seems like
a carrot cake, you know, and that's religion and cult.
Like there's this very blurry line.
So Scientology should win that lawsuit.
So who's to say?
Like what their Mormons aren't legit or they are legit.
Okay, so they get tax exempt status, but Scientology doesn't?
Why?
Yeah, I don't think you can come up with a legitimate reason why.
And in all these groups, Scientology and Mormonism, too
There's these inner circles that are much much more more devout
So there's plenty of people who define themselves as Mormon or Scientologists who aren't living this really narrow life
But the people at the center are but that's the question is like how hard is it to form a religion?
Is it really easy like how easy easy is it to get that taxes in status? How many people do I can do it?
I bet you could do it like I can do it.
I bet you could do it.
I feel like I could do it.
I bet you could do it, for sure.
But it's one of those things.
It's like how many, you would imagine that everybody would be doing it.
It's a great way to just trick the government.
Sure.
You don't have to give them any money.
Yeah.
I think someone did that, right, Jamie?
Like a spaghetti monster or something and actually created the church of that.
And you got time they got
status for that
The flying spaghetti monster
Well, you it would be really hard to argue especially when you deal with something like Scientology when you have a science fiction writer
Who is you know, he's he's the most prolific fiction writer of all time
Elron Hubbard is he wrote more words down and
had them published than any human being that's ever lived. I think he was a boy
scout too actually. Was he? Yeah we should check that one. My favorite is when he's in the
Sea Org and he's got like this military jacket on and just gave himself a bunch
of medals. He's got like this stacks of medals. Have you gone to the museum? Which one? I think there's more than one, but there's the one in Hollywood.
No.
No, I didn't.
I've met with them before.
I got audited where you hold onto the cans,
and they did the thing.
Yeah, I did that.
You could feel the energy.
I was filming a television show in San Diego,
and we were near a park.
And I was in this famous back then.
I could get away with it.
They didn't know how it was.
And I sat down with this dude. He went through the whole thing
with me with the E meter and just tell him, and I realized someone on the line that he's
just a dude who joined Scientology and now part of his job is to go out and convert,
but he's not very good at it. Like he's like, he didn't convert you. No, no. Well, not
only that, he's not good at selling it. He was like, like very non enthusiastic about
it. Cause I would have thought that all the cult members
would be super pumped to get you to join,
but this guy was just lost,
like, I guess this is my people now,
and yeah, yeah, hold on to the meter.
So it was interesting, it was like,
he wasn't even so, it reshaped, in my mind,
it was like every person trying to indoctrinate you
into this cult is gonna be really charismatic
and really locked in.
No, those are the leaders.
They get the regular folks to go out to the park and annoy people
and get yelled at you fucking wackadoo like yeah so that's the guy that I've
got the people at the top don't want to do that it was very weird I feel like
you could be a cult leader Joe if you wanted to be I don't think it's that
hard I feel like you could I don't think it's that hard if you decided it was one
of your life goals hit me up and I'll give you some like tips and you'll be I'm not really there in another week
If it's a cult is a cult you could leave anytime
No requirements and just say you're in okay. You're not I don't care
Apostafarians have tax exempt status. Mm-hmm
But the Scientologists do if you if you read the fucking story
Anybody that reads that story the story of the Thetans and the volcano and the aliens and the spirits. It's really interesting. It's crazy
It's crazy. If you read the Lawrence Wright's going clear
It's a very fascinating book that sort of details the whole history of L Ron Hubbard creating it
And he was basically a crazy person who was self-diagnosing.
And so he was self-counseling.
And he was using all these self-help books and psychology
books, trying to figure out how to live life.
And that was Dianetics.
Yeah.
You've read some of that, right?
Yeah, well, I bought it.
In the 1990s, they had those infomercials,
where it was the volcano and the books
were flying out of the volcano.
It's funny.
And I didn't know that it meant like, I didn't know the whole story behind the volcano where
like the aliens throw the fucking frozen souls and the volcano, all that crazy shit.
So I just thought it was a self-help book.
And back then I was really into self-help books.
I bought like Anthony Robbins audio cassettes and all that shit.
I was into things like that.
And so I was like, oh, that seemed like how to maximize your life in this commercial.
Like, oh, interesting.
So I bought it online or on the phone.
I think I think back then you called wasn't online and they never stopped sending me shit.
They sent me shit for years, for years.
It was invitations to this and invitations to that.
And, you know, half off of this and invitations to that and you know half
off of this and free that and come here and meet with us and they just wouldn't
stop. They just bombarded me with stuff. Well you would be a good get if they
could get you. So you had all these iterations of like these self-help you
know stages of all these things through all of it right? All the ways that you
have self-helped in a sense. So what has been the most useful to you in being the kind of person you want to be?
Time
Time's a big one learning over time
experiences
introspective thought
making decisions based on truth rather than thing then based on what you want to believe and
Just the accumulation of life experiences like a life well-lived and
Then psychedelic drugs. Yeah, those have been very effective
Those are the big ones those the psychedelic drug breakthroughs are the ones where you...
I always say that it's like control, alt, delete
for your brain.
And then your brain reboots with a fresh desktop.
But now there's only one folder in that desktop
and that folder says, my old bullshit.
And you have a decision.
Either you open up that folder and start behaving
exactly how you used to because you have a pattern you're accustomed to or
you try to
Re-engage with the world re-interface with the world with this newfound experience as a guide
Yeah, I
Think that's what the heart of all religious experiences are
I think there was people back then that
I think that's what the heart of all religious experiences are. I think there was people back then that experimented with psychedelic drugs and they had profound
experiences and they might have even experienced entities.
They might have even had interaction with God.
It might be a real thing that you could do with the right stuff.
I think people have been talking about it and writing it on cave walls and depicting it in many religious texts and drawing images of it on the fucking ruins
of Egypt.
I mean, it's everywhere.
It was in the Illusinian mysteries in Greece.
It's everywhere.
Psychedelic drugs have been everywhere throughout human history.
I think they probably shaped a lot of the way people formulated their ideas about religion. Absolutely. And I think that a lot of people believed that it was the forging
of those mushrooms that led to psychedelic drugs that like led the
cultivation of communities that were religiously based. Yeah. But that they
really came from just looking for food initially and then they would have these
experiences and they could see something bigger than the life they were living.
I always wondered why the Hindus don't eat cows.
Like, how did that become religious?
Specifically cows.
Right.
And does it have anything to do with the fact
that they make mushrooms?
Because mushrooms grow in cow shit.
And if you had cows that were connecting you to God,
you wouldn't want to eat them.
No, they would be a form of a god.
Yeah, don't eat Betsy. Betsy's cool. She brings us the mushrooms.
Because that's where the mushrooms grow. I mean, is it a coincidence that mushrooms grow on cow shit?
I don't know. What is the original origin of why Hindus don't eat cows? Because I really don't know.
But I know that there have been cultures that were cattle worshiping cultures that also had mushroom iconography.
There's some – I forget the name of the culture.
It was a weird like Choctaw Hewok or something like that.
But it's a culture that had all their iconography was like cattle and mushrooms.
Yeah.
Or some of their iconography, I shouldn't say that.
Like some of their writings, what's left.
It's like so many cultures that show evidence
that they've been doing stuff
with psychedelic drugs forever.
They probably formulated so many of their,
you know, like their shamanistic practices
and how they organize their culture and their communities. They'll probably all
do rituals together to connect to each other, you know, and stare at the stars.
But the thing about psychedelics though that is so beautiful compared to cults, and cults
don't do these because they tap you into yourself and you have your own unique, or someone unique,
but you know, you have your own individual experience of what it means to you. And cults
can't allow you to have that that's true, but you know there are a lot of instances of guys who are shaman
Even in the rainforest that do creepy shit
Yeah, they're not just human
It's like they do start running things like a cult even though they're they're shamans and they're giving people ayahuasca
Like there's this pressing. Yeah, well certain of them Even though they're shamans and they're giving people ayahuasca. That's depressing.
Yeah.
Well, certain of them, some of them might have gravitated towards that with that intention
in mind, right?
Like, they might not have been born true of the shamanistic spirit.
They might have entered into it at a point in life, like as a con artist, you know, which
does happen. It does happen.
Like people infiltrate certain kind of groups of people if they feel like it's a bunch of vulnerable people in those groups and a bunch of like easily
influenced and you know
open to interpretation and you know, you could just tell them that you're connected to God in a very unique way and also you're a
Guru, you know. Yeah. Yeah, there's a lot of those guys
too. I mean that was the wild wild country guy. You know, he was like a legit guru, said some
Osho, said some brilliant things but also was fucking crazy out of his mind. He's a freak.
I feel like we need to be skeptical of anyone who tells us that they know the word of God,
that like they are connected to God and you're not.
Right?
So if you tell me this is my experience
and I ask you questions,
I can choose to follow you or not follow you, right?
Based on whether or not I like the results
of your experience, et cetera.
But somebody who says, no, God told me this
and this is the only way.
But imagine if God really did tell you
and knew what he wanted to believe you.
Well, I'm sure a lot of people.
Imagine like, I really am a prophet.
Yeah, well that was my grandpa.
Guys, I know this is crazy. I know this sounds crazy, but I just got back from the mountain
that God gave me a series of rules. I gotta give it to you.
Yeah.
Nobody would believe you, which is really ironic about today.
Christians really want Jesus to return, but like, what amount of convincing would
you have to do to get people to believe you were really Jesus?
You'd have to do so much work.
And how many people would be convinced that it's Satan pretending to be Jesus?
So then there'd be that battle.
There'd be the same people that think Michelle Obama has a dick.
There's going to be people that think, they're going to think the nuttiest of things.
And then Jesus is going to be like, guys, guys, guys, I am not Satan.
I'm actually Jesus.
Nobody believed him.
We would fucking crucify him again.
And then people realized, God damn it, we did it again.
We did it again.
We could have kept him around and learned from him.
And now they're gonna have to rewrite Christianity.
Every few thousand years he comes back and they fucking kill him again.
Cycle of life.
Well that would be, that's the really scary thing to think that if the Son of God really
did return, if that is a real true thing, how the fuck would we ever believe that?
We don't believe anything anymore.
Yeah.
I mean the tradition, right, is this trumpet is is gonna sound and you think the trumpet in the sky
But we would be convinced as the government that's air horns. They're tricking us
Yeah, this is the ultimate false flag the Jesus returns false flag
I mean, that's what a lot of people think is going on with the UFO reports. Yeah. Yeah
They think it's bullshit. They think it's the government and the government's lying to us about that. They're from another planet
You know, which is
They lie about everything like if they're telling you something
This year these are off-world crafts. I'm like, oh, when did we make these like shut the fuck up?
When do we make these you're seeing they're out from another planet for real?
I don't believe you I mean it could be a case of crying wolf
like maybe they're telling the truth but
Boy seems a little suspicious and that would be the same thing with the Jesus thing
Like if Jesus really did come back and there was some fundamental Christian is
Fundamentalist Christians that were in government that wanted the world to know so they had a press conference
And we have definitive proof that Jesus has returned and we need to listen to him everybody like get the fuck out of here
No one would believe it
that's what's crazy about today if Jesus came back today and
The world was in the middle of chaos if we're in the middle of World War three and Jesus returns
It's a real likelihood that they would crucify him again or something similar real likelihood
I disagree if he falls in the wrong group of people the modern-day version of the Romans
Right, you can fall into the wrong group of people.
And like if Jesus like accidentally landed
in ISIS country, could you imagine?
I don't know if it would be an accident, but okay.
Right, probably not an accident.
But maybe, you know, Jesus is just like,
let me just go down there and it wasn't specific enough.
And God didn't say like, where do you want to go?
Like send me to Manhattan. No, He said just bring me to earth and he just dropped him
off right in ISIS camp.
Oh yeah, that'd be very dangerous.
Yeah. And then the whole thing starts all over again and then we have to tell the story
about the guy who came from God, he was God's son and ISIS killed him.
I don't think we've changed that much since the Pharisees and Sadducees and all that.
I mean we've changed a little but I think so much of our change is not a human nature change, right?
That's what's gonna so much of our change is technological so much of our change of society and wooden buildings
Concrete structures and roads and metal for bones and metal forks. Yeah, that's what's changed
But the actual tissue is real similar. It's real similar to people that lived ten thousand years ago yeah so if
we've got the the human nature like more suppressed now than it's ever been
before but like we were talking about earlier if you're in a crowd situation
when things go chaos then you go oh we're still this thing. We're still a program for war.
We're still programmed for chaos.
It's all in us.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And mob mentality, all of that.
It's real.
People change.
They absolutely change when they're in a group.
Their group dynamics are always different.
I think you see it online too.
I think mob mentality exists not even just in a physical space, but I think it exists
in a digital space too. I think when people gang up on people online on Twitter and those physical space, but I think it exists in a digital space too.
I think when people gang up on people online, on Twitter and those kind of things, I think
that's the same thing.
I think it's the same kind of mob mentality.
It's the same sort of energy that is in us.
It's very creepy.
It's very creepy and it's one of those things where you're like, how do we ever get that
out? How do we ever get these ancient primate inclinations
out of the modern human organism?
I think if we had an answer for that,
that we would be very, very, very wealthy.
Maybe or the government will kill you.
Yeah.
It would be hard to control people
if you had the answer to that.
Yeah, I think for individuals, the most important thing is exercise.
It's one of the most important things I should say because you can induce enough stress voluntarily
that the regular stress of the outside world is mitigated because you've already experienced
a higher level of difficulty in your day by choice, then the world can impose upon you.
So if you have rigorous workout schedules,
if you like to run, if you wanna lift weights,
if you wanna do yoga, like you wanna do something
with jujitsu, do something that's physically taxing,
that's what you should do.
Do something like that, and the physical act
of forcing yourself to do something extremely difficult
that makes you uncomfortable for a short period of time,
but makes the rest of the day much easier. Yeah. That's
what it is. You got to just feed the monkey inside of you. You got to like
don't deny its existence. Just do something to that thing to calm it down.
Give it food, you know. Yeah I wonder statistically those of us who exercise
if we are less inclined to get online and terrorize other people in mob mentality
I would guess that may be true. I would bet that's true. A lot of the people that I know that terrorize people mob mentality
They're extremely unhealthy. They look they look terrible
They're they're just they get addicted to it and they get addicted to
Interacting online on Twitter all the time and like gauging, you know
The temperature socially of how
people think about them based on this like verbose bullshit they just typed on Facebook.
But it's like it becomes this integral part of the way they engage with other human beings.
And it's very non-human. It's very recent. It's very non-human. It's too limited in the
way you interact with it.
It's just like you can get good information online,
you can get interesting discussions on Twitter,
but you could also get like,
you're dealing with like legitimately mentally ill people.
And I don't use that term lightly, okay?
I'm not saying schizophrenic,
I'm not saying manic depressive,
but if you are a person that has a gambling addict addiction, if you are a person that has a gambling addiction, if you're a
person that has an addiction to betting on the horses, you're mentally ill.
You have this thing you're sick with, all right?
If you can't stop smoking cigarettes, you're mentally ill.
You have this thing that you can't stop.
You're physically attracted to it, you're physically addicted to it, but you're also
mentally ill because you don't recognize that you should stop before you get fucking lung
cancer, right? That's the same thing with
everything, I think. I think these are just like normal patterns and I think
people that are addicted to arguing with people on Twitter, they're mentally ill.
This is serving the same thing as online poker. This is serving the
same thing as fill-in-the-blanks, Whatever you like to do that you probably shouldn't be doing,
scratch tickets, lottery, whatever it is that you just can't get out of your head
because you got locked into it.
You're mentally ill.
You're mentally ill.
Just like when you have a cough, you're physically ill.
Yeah, when you're online 12 hours a day arguing with people, you're mentally ill.
And maybe you're mentally ill and having good discussions.
Maybe you're mentally ill and having good discussions.
Maybe you're mentally ill and engaging in sometimes productive conversations, but you're
also you're heightening your levels of anxiety and this bizarre non-natural way of interfacing
with other human beings and you're living in that most of the time.
So you're going to suffer in the way you interact with people on a regular
basis. And you see that bleed out too, right? You see people act like they're on Twitter
into people in real life. And they're like, what the fuck is wrong with you? Why are you
acting like this? Because they're so used to communicating like that on Twitter and
on Facebook and Instagram that they think it's normal to just be completely rude to
people.
Yeah. You can't do that in the wilderness. There's not enough cell reception to do that in the wilderness.
Right.
And you can't do that face to face because it feels weird.
If you do that face, if you talk to people face to face the way people talk to people
just constantly on Twitter, you would have fistfights everywhere.
People would be just fighting.
They'd be pushing each other and hitting each other.
You'd have murders.
Like it's just a shitty way to talk. So if you're doing that you're
mentally ill. So if you have gangs of mentally ill people that are just
constantly engaging with other gangs of mentally ill people online all day long.
Arguing over everything cultural, everything environmental, fill in the blanks, climate
change, fill in the blank, Ukraine, whatever it is, free Palestine, fuck you.
It's all day long.
Mentally ill people.
Yeah.
And I think China's laughing at us.
Oh, they said that.
They, yes.
I mean, I don't know if they said it all out, but they have
infiltrated it.
They have done a wonderful job.
I say China.
Way to go.
That tick tock thing is fucking genius.
What you've done is genius.
Yeah, I mean, they've definitely infiltrated universities.
They definitely they grants and funds they put money into things they to things. It's, what they've done is wild. It's wild.
And I would say that the same, I guess, impulses that make people do what everything you're
describing are really the same things that keep people in cults. Like there was a lot
of the similar traits of people who become mentally ill because they are constantly only focusing
on one person's definition of anything.
Yes.
Yes.
So if cults were online doing that to each other, that's what they would sound like.
Most certainly.
Mark Andreessen again talked about that as well.
He said they have, if you look like the woke people online, they have all the characteristics
of a cult.
They have excommunications. They have all the characteristics of a cult. They have excommunications,
they'll savagely attack former members.
They have rules and there's things that you,
there's a suspension of disbelief that you have to use
in order to adopt certain things.
You have to be willing to say things
you know aren't really true
and they all get you to do it.
You know? Well well because it's
part of the end group yeah like that's how you get status yeah but it's just
fascinating to see how far that stuff goes up you know like even with like
people that run universities like they believe it people that are in Congress
they believe it it's like Jesus like this is we're all the cult
Cult thinking is not like I think people have this thing in their head that cults are like small groups of people that are gullible
No, and I don't think that's true. I think I think you could have a cult of 150 million people easy
hmm easy If you have someone controlling your behavior information your thoughts and your emotions then yeah
And if you have a good system set up where everybody polices everybody else like woke people on Twitter
And then you have a good system of like the person who's in charge and the underlings and all the other people and it's like
And people are benefited from it in a good way. Yeah, you can get a bunch of businesses going you can infiltrate corporations with this nonsense
You can get in the Supreme Court.
You can do wild things with it.
You just need to have a strong structure of support
from the other members online.
Yeah, you just need to get people to police each other
and police themselves.
Yeah, that's the big one, right?
That's the North Korean model.
Get people to police themselves.
Yeah, get people to rat on each other.
Whoo.
Yeah, I think we just came full circle on that.
Yeah.
I think your story is very important for people to hear.
I'm really happy that you had the courage to say it,
because I would imagine it would be very, very hard
to tell that story, Very hard to explain the vulnerabilities
that you experienced and what it was like to be
this 17 year old kid who's still a kid,
who's like, you know, just coming a woman
out there in the world and you just escaped
from a cult where you couldn't even see movies
and all you sung was hymns and you thought the end was near
and then you're out there in the world
just interacting with all these people that went to like normal schools and had
normal childhood American experiences and you have to kind of relearn everything.
Yeah and there's a lot of excommunication that still goes on in
terms of it's my family of origin it's all every single cousin I had was raised
there I did not have any cousins on the other side a hundred percent of my
relatives were raised in there and so yeah you have any cousins on the other side. A hundred percent of my relatives were raised in there. And so yeah, you have to be willing
to, in a sense, step away from the acceptance that you get, which I think
had to relate to many, many, many, many people who have nothing to do with
religion. But yeah, all the different types of cults in the world. It's like being
willing to stand back and say, wait, I don't believe this. I think this story,
your story is really important too
for people that may be vulnerable.
You know, maybe they don't have the tools to discern,
like maybe they're being courted by a group.
You know, they don't have the tools to discern.
Like, why, just fundamentally,
if someone's telling you that they have secret information
that only they have, and it comes from a mystical source.
Either it comes from aliens or it comes from God or...
Probably not.
It's probably not.
It's probably not.
I mean, it might be Jesus.
Again, if Jesus came back, who's going to believe him?
But most likely you're dealing with someone who's full of shit.
So at least today We know that You know in 1930 when your grandpa first started me. He was just
Running wild like there's no Wikipedia
You could just go or Joseph Smith who created the Book of Mormon, you know, like that fucking guy
He was like 14 years old
Yeah like that fucking guy. He was like 14 years old. Wow. Yeah.
Said he found golden tablets that
contained the lost work of Jesus,
but only he could read it,
because he had a magic rock.
And everybody's like, okay.
Yeah, that's the kind of thing my grandfather said too,
and people believed it.
There was a lot of those guys back then.
Yeah, you could wave a lot back then.
What do you think is the motivation?
Like, what is it about human beings, and almost always men?
There's only a few women that have been successful cult
leaders.
It's pretty rare.
Yeah, that one that was on the HBO documentary.
I haven't seen it yet, but everybody raves about it.
You know what I'm talking about?
I do, but I haven't seen it.
The lady who became anorexic.
What is it?
Love?
What was that one, Jamie?
What's it called?
It's supposed to be amazing, but I haven't seen it, but what is it that
That that seems to be a recurring pattern
So I've always found it really fascinating to say that anyone could be a cult member anyone could fall for that Especially if you're young right, but it's who would become a cult leader? That's the bigger question.
Who's Jim Jones?
Right.
I feel like there's no simple answer for that, but in my grandfather's case and in many other
of these young men cases, they were outsiders in some way and they had some bone to pick.
And they wanted, I think they maybe started out of wanting belonging, but then they got
really drunk on the power so quickly.
Like Manson.
Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
Yeah.
So I've been teaching in prisons, by the way, it's been part of my career, and I worked
with Lesley Van Houten, who was a, I mean she's been released now, but she was the tutor
in the program I was working in.
And you know, she was like what, 19 when she committed these, participated in, but she
followed Manson as if he was a cult leader. It's very similar. And I'm not like talking about the politics of all that
or like, I'm just saying that, I mean, I'm very grateful that nobody asked me to kill
anybody, you know, I'm not, I would like to think I wouldn't, but I don't think any of
us know.
Right. If you were 12 years old and your whole life, you'd lived in that cult and you were
told to kill some man because he's a demon. And if you killed them and they were like hugging you, you did it, you saved us, you
saved us from the demon, you'd be pumped.
Yeah, I think you would be.
Of course, children like that, especially if you get them.
They're trained in armies at that age.
Exactly, exactly.
And I mean, that's also why people like people join the army when they're young, not just
because they're strong, but also because they're mentally unaware of the conflicts of the world. It's really
difficult to get a 60 year old man to go to war based on, you know, we found weapons of
mass destruction. Okay, they'll put on his reading glasses. Let me see this shit. What
do you got? Show me what the fuck you got. I'm going to fly to Afghanistan. Show me what
you have. Yeah. Yes. You need them. Yes, sir. We're
gonna go kill the bad guys, sir. That's what you need.
But the cult leaders have something that they really feel like they need, like they need
people's respect because I don't think they could get it in other ways. And so they create
this whole world. And honestly, once people start believing you, it's probably a pretty
big high.
Yeah. I had David Holthaus on the podcast the other day, and he did that documentary series that's
on Peacock about the Hare Krishnas, about this one guy that created this sect of the
Hare Krishnas and was all child molestation and murder.
They're killing people, and it's a crazy, it's a really good doc, he's a really good
director.
And the documentary series is really interesting,
but it's just like, goddamn, that pattern just repeats
itself over and over, Waco, holy hell, up there,
wild, wild country, it's like everywhere.
The same sort of pattern repeats itself
and it always, almost always at least, falls apart.
It's hard to keep that stuff going because...
But you're a crazy person.
Yeah, and you have to keep upping the ante.
Right.
It's not like Warren Buffett.
He's not out there starting cults.
It's not like people are good at organizing businesses.
It's like crazy people, like wild, crazy people.
But there's this inclination to get people to follow you and to tell them what to do
and to tell them how to live you and to tell them what to do and tell
them how to live life and to make them worship you. It's fucking strange that
that's just some sort of weird evolutionary response like because in
tribal cultures there was always a leader and that leader was generally the
wisest person who had the most life experience who could tell you hey this is
the plant you can't eat.
Don't go over there, they'll kill you.
This thing runs fast in you.
Get away from it.
That snake's poisonous.
Like you had to know how to make an arrow.
This guy knew.
So that was your leader.
And if you listen to him, you're going to stay alive.
And if you don't listen to him, you're going to watch people die right next to you and
you go, oh, they didn't listen.
And you're going to experience that at a young age where people die because they used to
die all the fucking time.
Of course.
Yeah, just infant mortality was like 50% back then.
And then you're like, what are the odds you're going to live to 30?
Not so good, bro.
This jaguar is in the fucking trees.
Like, you're fucked.
You're in trouble.
And that's why we had tribal leaders. And then as we expanded into these societies and cities and large groups of human beings,
we still had the desire to have one individual leader because we have this primate genetic
imprint in us of the alpha who runs the people to the point where we'll pretend that someone's
alpha.
Like we'll pretend Joe Biden is really running the country.
We'll pretend. And so many Democrats are all in on it. Like, the most culty
of cult members, the wokest of woke are the ones who are the most likely to try to fucking gaslight
you that he's fine, and he's doing great. And he's the best president ever. And just look at the
economics and look at the economy is doing better and look at the, you know, he's on top. He's never
been sharper. Like, what do you shut up? You're in a cult. You're in a cult. Just like if you were in the Moonies,
just like if you're in the Holy Hell cult. It's the same thing. It's just patterns of belief.
And we all have them. And we're susceptible to them because life is a massive mystery. It's a
massive, scary, weird mystery with a lifespan. It's got a finite life span.
You have a certain amount of time here
and you never think like you have enough time
and you never think you did enough
and it always feels weird
and you never even know what the fuck is going on
while you're driving your car or sitting on the bus.
The whole time you're like, what is this?
What is this all about?
So anytime you can get some relief from that,
someone comes along and they go, I've got the answers.
Come with me, Michelle. Okay, so that's not happening anymore. No, of course not. But, you know,
when you said that to us thinking like it is, it's the belief that there's answers instead of what
I think you and I believe is that it's always more questions. Like we don't have the answers,
and we will, there will be continuing, there'll be questions that we never answer in our lifetime. Well
Also, we exist in a certain
frequency in reality
But there's subatomic reality that's so damn confusing that somehow another a part of us that we can study
Like what's all that magic? What's all that magic going on?
Where you got particles that are both moving and still, they exist and reappear,
they disappear, we don't know where the fuck they're going. What's happening there?
What is that stuff? What's all that stuff? There's so much that we don't know.
There's so much weirdness just in the observable universe that the whole
thing is a crazy mystery. And to not approach it that way and to approach it with some bizarre
confidence that you have the answers. You're not doing anybody any good because you're
full of shit. You're full of shit with yourself. You're full of shit if you believe it. You're
full of shit with yourself. You're definitely full of shit with other people if you're telling them you believe it
You you can't know we have guidelines and there's ways that we can live that are gonna be better for everybody and we should
Definitely go that way
Definitely don't try to harm people
Definitely try to be nice as much as possible try to be cool to your friends try to enjoy your time here try to leave people
The smile try to do your best, do that
stuff. Like if we do all that stuff, we're good. But as soon as someone comes along and
tells you, no, you have to do this because this is the word of God, like be suspicious.
Because it's been around before. It's not like this is a unique thing.
I feel like be suspicious is some good advice. Be suspicious.
Be suspicious of anybody that's trying
to get you to do things.
They're trying to tell you to do a thing,
and that if you don't do a thing, you're a bad person.
And the people that are engaging in other things
other than what they're telling you are all going to hell.
I'm like, OK.
Let me put my reading glasses on.
Let me see this hell.
You got a fucking YouTube video I can watch?
Like, how much do you know?
Are you sure?
Do you have the GPS coordinates of that?
Do you have the Onyx maps of hell?
I don't think you know what you're talking about.
And if you don't say that,
if you don't have the humility to say that this is,
at the very least a massive mystery
We know so much
I mean we know so much more than we've ever known before and thank God there's people out there that are trying to figure the
World out thank God there's people out there that are doing the work and doing the fucking
the
Theoretical physicists and all the quantum mechanics people and all the people that are like trying to make rocket ships
Thank God you're out there, but at the end of the day and all the quantum mechanics people and all the people that are like trying to make rocket ships.
Thank God you're out there.
But at the end of the day, this is a crazy mystery
that you go to bed every night,
you close your eyes and you disappear.
Hopefully for eight hours,
if you get in your eight hours, Michelle,
and then that alarm clock goes off
and then you reengage with reality
and assume that this is the exact same world
that you went to bed eight hours ago for. You assume, but you just re-engage with reality.
We look forward to it. Everyone's scared to die, but no one's scared to sleep.
And we do it every night. No one's scared. No, I don't want to shut the lights out.
I don't want to go to sleep. No one's scared to go to sleep.
Everybody's like, oh my god, I can't wait to sleep.
Can't wait to sleep and be recovered.
And then you get up.
You have to do it.
It's a requirement.
You have to go out.
You have to stop.
If you don't, you'll die.
The universe requires you to stop interfacing with it
for long stretches of time.
Ideally, eight hours. So I hear. Yeah, full 30- eight hours. That's so I hear.
Yeah, full 30-year day.
Yeah.
It's a wild thing.
Yeah.
A full 30-year day.
We reboot.
You reboot, yeah.
We process in our dreams in ways that we don't understand.
It's very strange.
Yeah.
It's very strange.
Just that alone is very strange.
There's many, many strange things.
Yeah, but that alone is a strange, strange one
that we've just accepted.
Because if that didn't exist and
All of a sudden everybody said listen. We have found a new thing
Instead of just being awake all the time
If you can just go to sleep
You'll live longer and you'll be better like what are you talking about?
Like you're just gonna shut off for eight hours, and then what happens to me like can I see no?
What if someone breaks in my house? Well, you're asleep fuck that no one would want to do that. Yeah, but it's normal. So we just do it
Yeah
Yeah, it's a mystery. This is a crazy ass mystery and what happens in your dreams?
Like why are those damn things so realistic?
What the fuck is going on in dreams
One thing happens if you smoke pot.
Your dreams kind of dull a little bit sometimes.
But if you take long breaks off, like we do Sober October and during Sober October we
don't do anything.
And when you take long breaks off you get wild dreams.
Wild.
And here's a little pro tip.
If you want to have the wildest dreams, take nootropics before you go to bed
Take like alpha brain before you go to bed because you want to have these dreams. Yeah
Let's go
Okay, I was a little kid. I used to love nightmares
When I was a little kid, I look forward to a nightmare. I would try to make me have one
Wow, cuz I like horror movies.
So it's like, let's have a let's get some monsters in here. Literally go to bed. I was
like, fuck scared out of me. I look forward to like having a nightmare dream. Wow. I had
a bunch of crazy ones too that I remember I even wrote a bunch of them down because
they're so nuts. Like plot of movies. They were so crazy. But it just was a thing where I thought of it
as like an adventure ride.
I thought of like nightmares as an adventure ride.
Like I knew I kept waking up.
So okay, all right.
After I was like four or five, I'm like,
I'm waking up so I know they're not real,
but it is pretty fun if they're scary.
If I can just relax.
So I was thinking that,
I remember thinking that as a little kid, thinking like,
I think this is a way to just make yourself have nightmares
and just do it for fun, just like watching a scary movie.
Wow, is any of that lucid dreaming?
I've only done lucid dreaming accidentally
a couple of times, and every time I've done it,
I've recognized that I'm dreaming and then I wake up,
because I recognize it. That's the problem.
I don't know how to chill.
Do you remember most of your dreams?
No. I remember a lot of them though. I don't remember most of them. I would say I remember
a small fraction of them, but I remember them for a long time. Yeah. What about you? I do. I remember a lot of dreams. I mean, I could never, nobody
would know if you remember all of them, for one. Right. How would you know? But yeah,
I still dream about the field. Really? That makes sense. Yeah. Yeah. Because then you're
subconscious and you're just like, I'm still processing. I didn't have a bad time in high
school. It wasn't the worst. I had a pretty good time in high school, but I would have
nightmares that I had to go back to high school. Like legitimate nightmares that like I didn't have a bad time in high school. It wasn't the worst I had a pretty good time in high school But I would have nightmares that I had to go back to high school like legitimate nightmares that like I didn't get enough credits
So I didn't graduate so I had to go back
Nightmares and high school was not that bad now. I can't imagine
How much that would be multiplied?
Leaving a cult at 17 years formative years. Yeah, so like even years. So like even for you, yeah, they're very formative.
And your prefrontal cortex is not completely formed.
And so we probably all go back to whatever degree
to that part of us.
But those nightmares must be very vivid for you, though,
and must be very extreme.
Because like I said, I would get nightmares from high school,
which was nothing.
It was no big deal.
It wasn't bad at all.
I didn't have a bad time in high school. But it was just the idea of being trapped in that fucking school another year was nothing. It was no big deal. It wasn't bad at all. I didn't have a bad time in high school, you know, but it was just the idea of being trapped
in that fucking school another year was scary.
And that's nothing.
Yeah.
Yeah.
It's the being trapped.
I have a lot of dreams like that.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Do they subside with time?
They've gotten better.
You know, I, so I, just two days ago, I met this guy who I hadn't seen since I was a kid.
So for me, I kind of met him for the first time,
you know, in the sense of I don't remember him.
But he said that reading Forager,
and he really said this and I, it was,
he said he had nightmares.
He's always had nightmares.
This man is late 60s, probably maybe even 70, I don't know.
And he said that reading it stopped his nightmares
because he thinks because somebody validated,
so he didn't feel like it was trapped in his head anymore.
Someone validated and named his experience
because he wasn't talking about it.
Not even to his own family,
like his whole life he's never talked about it.
And so having, just seeing in a book
made him say like, I'm not crazy.
And so I just wonder sometimes if our nightmares
are also, I mean, it's great that you were like
causing ones on purpose,
but the kinds that are like really deeply disturb us.
I just wonder if they're parts of us
that we haven't fully come to terms with.
I don't know.
I wonder, but some of mine is like Godzilla
chasing me when I'm on a skateboard.
Like they don't make any sense.
I think-
That doesn't sound that scary.
I think there's certainly like,
I mean, I don't try to have nightmares now.
I really only did that a few times when I was a kid.
But the nightmares that I do have,
almost all of them are like really primal ones.
Like I've had a lot of nightmares about wolves.
Like a lot over the years.
Like running from wolves.
There's something about wolves,
because they're intelligent and they operate in packs, and
they have some sort of non-verbal communication where they understand each other in some very
weird way.
They're similar to us in a lot of ways.
Yeah.
Yeah.
They freak me out.
They really do.
You know, they're not that different from dogs.
Yeah, they're a lot different from dogs.
They're a lot different from dogs.
Well, they are, because they're wild, but-
I have a golden retriever.
Okay, they're way different than a golden retriever. Way different. I have a strange shepherd, and they're not lot different. Well they are because they're wild but I have a golden retriever. Okay, they're way different than a golden retriever.
I have a strange Shepherd's and then my dog is a love sponge.
He loves everybody if he came in here, but you're part of his pack. Oh, yeah, no doubt, but he's not a wolf.
Okay, there's a big difference.
I mean he used to be a wolf if you go back 20,000 years ago or whatever it was when they
There's a big difference. I mean he used to be a wolf if you go back 20,000 years ago or whatever it was when they
Started taking these bitch-ass wolves were willing to come by the forest fire or bought by the campfire rather
but the the wolves that live and operate in the wild are these
ruthless majestic creatures who are intelligent
Right, but the reason that you love your dog is the same reason that wolves love each other. You know, I mean, there is this because they're part of a pack and because they understand
relationships and I think the wolves with each other, you're just not in relationship
with the wolf.
But I mean, of course they're scary.
But they're because they're so good at what they do.
Right.
But that's why we're scared of deer.
Well, yeah.
Yeah.
We are in the woods with a rifle.
Deer should be fucking scared.
Yeah.
And that's why they jump and that's why they're running away real quick.
And that's the thing with wolves and human beings.
We've been food for them for a long time.
That's what Little Red Riding Hood is all about.
That's really, that's what the Big Bad Wolf is all about.
That's the whole story.
The story is about wolves that
will eat your kids because that's what they did. They eat people. World War I had to be
– they had a ceasefire between the Germans and the Russians because too many of them
were getting eaten by wolves.
That's why they had a ceasefire?
Yeah, they had a ceasefire.
Wow.
And they killed the wolves and then went back to killing each other.
They couldn't have just like taken a break and said like, oh maybe we should be on the same side.
No, they were losing so many people to wolves that they had these packs of wolves in Russia
and this was trench warfare so they had horrific wounds. These people would be lying in the trenches
with a bullet hole and then you'd hear wolves tearing these people apart and they'd be screaming.
Yeah, they would send people out on patrol and just find a boot with a
foot in it. Oh my god. Yeah. You should be scared of wolves. You should be scared of
wolves. Yeah I mean they're reintroducing wolves now to Colorado they
just did and they just had the first wolf depredation where wolf killed a
calf at a ranch and that's just the beginning.
There's a reason why they killed those things.
I don't think they should have.
I don't think they should have made wolves extinct
in the Western United States like they did.
I think it was horrible.
They put strychnine in horses and they left them out there
and the wolves would eat it and die.
They did horrible, terrible things.
But you don't want wolves.
You don't want them around.
You don't want a lot of them,
especially with these bitch ass people today. They just around. You don't want a lot of them, especially with these bitch-ass people today.
They just... You're gonna fucking lose a lot of folks if those things get to high numbers.
You're gonna lose a lot of folks. A lot of people are gonna be camping. They're gonna get surrounded.
Just needs certain numbers. Needs numbers where they think they can get away with stuff like that.
You know, numbers where there's not enough people with guns. they find out that they think people are just hikers,
they don't seem to have any weapons,
they know what a weapon is, they figure that out.
Over time, like wolves see enough rifles,
they know what a rifle is, they're not stupid.
They're not stupid.
They're scary animals, but they're also amazing.
But you gotta keep an eye on them.
People that live in cities don't think that.
It goes back to be suspicious. Our theme for today, be suspicious.
Well, be suspicious of systems, right? Because that is a system of predator and prey.
And if you're having a hard time walking up that hill, guess what?
Guess what side you're on? You think you're a predator? Well, you're not!
You're not. You can't even get up the get up the hill wolves rub a hill like it's nothing
Yeah, we they just fucking go over that hill like it ain't shit
They're gonna run 45 miles an hour and chase you down eat you stupid
Yeah, be suspicious be suspicious
Did they teach you guys when you were doing the survival training how to like do everything like get water hunt for food like?
Make your own fire how to like do everything, like get water, hunt for food, like make your own fire.
I know how to distill, you know, water in a pit from plants and how to distill urine
and all that great stuff.
Wow.
Yeah, it's not really a very practical skill that you don't really have to do that on a
daily basis.
But if you know how to distill water, it's like pretty wise.
Yeah, I mean, you can do a lot with dew, just like by putting, but you do need a piece of on a daily basis. But if you know how to distill water, it's pretty wise.
Yeah, I mean, you can do a lot with dew.
Just like by putting, but you do need a piece of plastic.
You can use like a rain jacket or like a windbreaker
or whatever, but you put it, you dig a pit
and you put all the vegetation in,
like whatever you can get, even in the desert.
Like if you can get, yuck or whatever.
And you put it in the pit and then the condensation,
when it rises, you need to collect it.
And then you can collect the dew. And, uh, survive.
So you get it off the bottom surface of the plastic?
Yeah, but you make a little, like, pool of it, and you...
Mm-hmm.
Yeah.
Damn.
Yeah, and you can, you can survive off of that.
Wow.
How much water can you get out of dew?
Well, it depends on how you, ideally,
you have more than one pit of this,
but you are gonna need to, at some point,
move on a little and forage where there's more plants. But, um, you can live. And you of this but you are going to at some point move on a little and forge where there's more
Plants but you can live and you also of course want to know what plants can give you water
Right until you can find a source of water. What's the good ones?
They're like which good plants what so what's the good ones that would get you water
What any really the darker green and the you know, the bigger the leaf but in the desert
I mean generally if you have the things that give you a lot of water are already at water sources, right, because they're water rich.
So it's in the desert where you need it.
And anything that has, I mean, cactus can give you water, but you're not going to get
as much dew as you do off of, let's say, sagebrush.
So sage bushes.
Yeah, you can get some dew off of that.
So what do you do?
You take them out of the dirt?
You bury them?
Yeah.
You dig a pit.
You don't bury them like they would grow you you leave them like lush
So you dig this pit so you can use it over and over and you take the brush and you put it in the pit
And then you cover it with whatever, you know sort of plastic you have if you have a tarp
That's great. I just don't know why you'd have a party planting it or you just leave it leaving it
You're not planting it because you didn't yeah, it's just you don't need the roots or whatever
So it's just sucking the water out of that plant
as it dehydrates in the heat with the plastic over it
and the water.
But it's overnight, so it's not really the heat.
I mean, it's, yeah.
So it'll like, you've seen condensation
like even on your car, right?
And so you're just collecting that.
That's just a source of collecting it.
And you put more of it in one place
so you can collect more.
How much can you get?
Well, I mean, if you get a quarter cup,
you're pretty lucky.
Wow. But you know, you just can't move a quarter cup, you're pretty lucky. Wow.
But you know, you just can't move around a lot if you don't want to dehydrate.
But if you do that enough, you can live.
You'll survive for a while.
Water is really important, way more important than food.
Yeah.
Yeah, I mean you know that.
Yeah.
You could say I've survived a long time without food.
Yeah.
We talked about this dude that was really fat and he went on a fasting diet with IV vitamins and he did it for
300 and something days. Yeah, you can do a whole year if you're heavy enough. Yeah, but most people could go a month pretty easily
Yeah, like even if you're not fat. Yeah, you'd look like shit at the end. Yeah, of course
But you could live, but you can't do that with water. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Wow
I'm sure you hope you don't ever have to use those skills.
I do hope that. And I am sure my skills are not as good as they used to be.
Yeah. But just what you've told so far, if the shit hits the fan, I'm calling you.
You should. You should, Joe.
I bet I should. Yeah.
I mean, how many years did you have to learn that stuff?
I mean, I learned them for a lot of years and it gets inside of you. And I think that's
the thing about muscle memory, right? And I believe in exercise, by the way, that stuff I mean I learned them for a lot of years and it gets inside of you and I think that's the thing about muscle memory Right, and I believe in exercise by the way, too
I mean I was trained like that's what I can't not exercise and I think that just like exercise like I'm sure you feel like
Shit, if you don't exercise and as do I but I also feel like when it gets inside of you
Like what survival is you feel I think without doing some of those things that you're not really fully human
I at least I feel that way Wow
Yeah, I like to eat off the earth even now
Like when I can you know, I still for I mean that's what picnics about
No, I've been like actually picking things out of the ground that I didn't plant I don't mean gardening
I mean, oh, I see you know like foraging off the land if you know what to eat
It's still really great to have something that grew there naturally like indigenous plants.
Yeah, it's rewarding. If you can find a blueberry bush and pick blueberries, it's rewarding.
Yeah, elderberries.
Yeah, I think it's a part of our past too, like in our DNA, you get excited.
Yeah.
You find fruit in the wild.
Every chapter of my book has like these descriptions of something you can eat in the Angeles National
Forest.
Oh, really?
Yeah. I mean, not to say that, you say that somebody would need a little bit of training.
I'm not advocating that you just go out there and like, you know.
But I mean, if you know what you're doing, yeah.
Yeah, you always hear that with mushrooms.
Like people fuck up and they eat the wrong mushrooms and wind up dying.
Mushrooms are scary.
They are.
There's a lot of them that will kill you.
Yes.
And then there's a lot of them will keep you alive.
Yeah.
So if you're going to survive, you should know the difference.
Yeah.
See this Argericon that Paul Stamm is gaming?
This is a giant mushroom.
That's a real mushroom?
Yeah.
Oh my god.
It's huge.
Let me see.
Check it out.
Wow.
Came off old growth forest.
Wow.
That's a real mushroom.
That's incredible.
Isn't that nuts?
Don't eat it.
No, you don't eat that one.
That one's staying on the table.
I'm just giving you some advice. No, no.'t eat that one. That one's staying on the table.
I'm just giving you some advice.
No, no, but he sells them in pills.
Wow.
He actually, yeah, his company is called Host Defense.
It's so beautiful.
You get it in pill form.
It's good for your immune system.
All right.
So it's foraging, I think.
I think so, too.
Yeah.
Yeah, I'm sure.
I'm sure even just getting dirt on you and being in the wild, and like, that's what we're
supposed to do, right?
Like being in sterile environments probably the worst thing for your immune system. Yeah, I'm like atrophy That's actually been studied. Yeah, like just sort of like exercise right? Like if you don't exercise your atrophy if you don't experience
Some other organisms. We're a host of organisms. We're not just all interconnected. Yes
Listen, I really enjoyed this conversation.
Thank you.
I've enjoyed it too.
I think your journey is remarkable.
It's very unusual.
And I think you came out of on the other end a very interesting person.
Thank you.
And I really appreciate you being here.
It's a lot of fun.
Thanks for having me on.
It's been wonderful hanging out with you.
My pleasure.
I enjoyed it very much.
Thank you.
All right.
So tell everybody how to get your book. Oh, right. So Forager, Field Notes for Surviving a Family Cult, it's available anywhere books are sold.
So you can get it online and yeah.
Do you have social media?
Do you have Instagram?
I do.
I have Instagram.
I'm on Substack.
I am on Twitter, but not a whole lot.
What is your Instagram?
Michelle Dowd-Z.
Michelle Dowd-Z?
Yeah, there's a Z at the end.
Got it.
All right, beautiful.
I wasn't the first Michelle Dowd on Instagram, unfortunately. Well, thank you very much there's a Z at the end. Got it. All right, beautiful.
It wasn't the first Michelle Dowd I've ever seen, unfortunately.
All right.
Well, thank you very much.
I really enjoyed it.
Thank you.
Thank you, Jeff.
All right.
Bye, everybody.
Bye.